I Want to Go to a Nursing Home: A Retired Female Professor's Shocking Monologue! It's So Insightful!

When taking out last night's leftovers from the fridge, I thought about going to the nursing home.

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The man had passed away ten years ago, his children were doing well, and he was building his own business in Beijing.I live alone, and at the beginning, I just cooked a new dish today and baked a pie tomorrow.

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After a long time living alone, I feel tired and lazy.Every day I need to cook and wash dishes, and after a day's work, I feel like I've done nothing, just wasted time eating (and the food wasn't even that good).

During the winter in Northeast China, the north wind cuts like a knife, and his children worry about him falling and getting injured, so they always order takeout for him, but it's not a sustainable solution.

Life is nearing its end, and when it comes to eating, I don't care about taste, but I don't want to be too frugal,And in the nursing home, you can enjoy five meals a day, breakfast, lunch and dinner, with fruit delivered in the morning and nutritional juice in the afternoon.

Here, there are dedicated nutritionists and chefs who pay attention to the elderly's dining habits and physical habits.

During the autumn and winter, which is the peak season for cardiovascular diseases in the elderly, low-salt and low-fat, but with flavor, professional and thoughtful are reflected in every meal and every food.-2-

After retirement, the fun must be found by yourself. I have ideas, but I'm 'hesitant and uncertain',My children are busy with work, and it's already a 'grateful expression' to video chat with me once a week,Recently I saw an article in the UK, London University conducted a study on,Living alone and lacking social interaction makes elderly people more prone to Alzheimer's disease, lacking sufficient emotional support and neural stimulation, which leads to a gradual decline in brain cognitive function,In the nursing home, my neighbor is a knowledge-seeking person who keeps up with the times and insists on studying every day.

My roommate is a sister who is full of energy and actively participates in all the center's activities every day,In the nursing home, an art college was established, with vocal music, calligraphy, musical instruments, poetry reading, dance… returning to 'student times', as if we were younger again.-3-

When suddenly having a heart attack, I thought about going to the nursing home.Raising children to prevent old age?

I don't agree with this.

When the body's parts start to show irreversible elderly degeneration,

What truly 'prevents old age' is daily life's good habits, good mentality, timely medical care, and urgent treatment,On TikTok, there's a hot trend: 'Even if you have many friends, try borrowing 300,000; if you are sick, try being bedridden',Life isn't good if you don't live well,Let's not try, if you try, the whole story will end,Although it's a joke, it's not without reason,In the nursing home, especially in integrated medical and elderly care nursing homes, there are emergency call buttons on the beds, and if you feel uncomfortable, just press the bell, and the nurses and doctors will immediately come to the bedside for emergency treatment, which is a hundred times better than being far away from children,The current national policy of 'integrating medical care' for the elderly is because it solves the biggest difficulties faced by the elderly –

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Child, I'm going to the nursing home.I'm preparing to rent out the house, plus the pension, I can still have a surplus every month.

Kindness is not for others to see, but from the heart for family, it is equal exchange, it is respect,Mom, I'm going to the nursing home,Let's agree, I'll be the 'frontline,' wait for the opportunity to come together in the nursing home,Time passes, we've been through good and bad times, we've been happy and sad, we've been joyful and sorrowful, we've already raised our next generation to adulthood, our grandchildren have their own grandchildren, which is a good thing,Looking forward to the new chapter in life, it's beckoning to us,“”

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