When a Person, Gets Used to Carrying All...
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Some say:
True maturity lies in the responsibilities one shoulders, in the effort one puts forth for life.
Indeed, the journey of growth is one of bearing burdens.
If a person can accept this fact with equanimity, it is likely because they have understood the following 5 things.
There is no shared empathy in the world
There is a story:
Pig, sheep, and cows were all kept in the same barn.
One day, the pig was taken out by the owner and let out, howling and resisting vehemently. The sheep and cows mocked the little pig, saying, 'We are often taken away, but we don't shout and squeal like you do.'
The pig sadly said, 'The owner takes you away just to divide your hair and milk. But to take me away is to divide my life.'
There is no complete shared empathy in the world.
The painful accidents we experience, when witnessed by others, are merely a breeze.
You weep until you're blinded, and others think you're overly sentimental.
You diligently strive for success, and others think you're putting on an act.
As in 'Life is a Century's Tavern,' 'When you truly want to express your emotions, you find it so difficult.'
There is an impassable chasm between people.
Some things, if unspoken, are better left unsaid; it is better for one to bear the burden oneself, and tomorrow will be a bright day after digestion.
Just as there are many hardships, only self-endurance
In 'Farewell to Childhood',We are destined to lose those we love, otherwise how do we know how important they are to us in our lives?
It's not, we persevere because we know those we love are important to us in our lives.
It's amazing ability
Su Cen said:
A person doesn't need so many extraordinary qualities; being able to shoulder burdens is already extraordinary.
Indeed, pressure is a catalyst for growth.
A senior once told me about a thing in his company.
A young couple entered the company together. From a standpoint of ability, they were no different. But whenever the company issued a task, one would shrink back, never volunteering to take on the task, fearing that they would inadvertently mess it up, so far so good, they were still working on their original jobs.
The other one, although knowing the difficulty of the task, would always proactively step forward to take on the responsibility, although he often became anxious and delirious, he eventually broke through, unknowingly letting go of what others couldn't.
After listening to this story, I realized the meaning of the senior's words.
It's not desirable to be a soldier of a general; that's the quality of a general.
To be a general, you must correspondingly bear the responsibilities of a general's role.
For oneself, being able to shoulder burdens is a honing and improvement of one's self-ability.
For others, someone who can shoulder burdens is more likely to be recognized and have greater opportunities to play out their roles.
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Luck does not exist; effort is the key.
Sometimes, it's not imposed by the outside world, but a self-requirement.
Before the dawn, you must endure a period of darkness
In the new version of 'The Romance of the Three Kingdoms',Cao Shuang angrily mocked Sima Yi for casually taking the Cao Clan's territory, while Sima Yi didn't think so, and sighed: 'I only have one sword to wield, but I've spent ten years forging it.'
Everyone must go through such dormancy.
Academic honors, studying for ten years of hardship.
Work successes are sometimes achieved in the background, often through hard work.
Many seemingly immediate successes have gone through a period of anonymity.
Lin Qing Xuan wrote a story about a bamboo shoot.
This bamboo shoot, from planting to sprouting, only takes four years to grow no more than 3 centimeters, but five years later, it can grow to 15 meters. It seems incredible, but in the previous four years, the bamboo shoot extended its roots hundreds of square meters in the soil.
Life is also like this, some efforts seem ineffective, it is just for a more brilliant blooming, deeply rooted.
Therefore, at any time, never give up.
When you fail repeatedly, you must rise and face the next challenge.
When you are ignored, you must patiently accumulate power and wait for the carp to leap the dragon's gate.
Shouldering all the hardships, all the fatigue, all the darkness, is for the sake of welcoming a grand celebration tomorrow.
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