May You Remain Young and Not Waste This Life
Throughout time, there will always be moments of confusion and indulgence, but darling, I want you to go and meet love, I want to let time give you tenderness, let you remain youthful, and not waste this life. I once read a saying: it says that in this world, we only have one life, and this time always spends half of our lives searching for an entrance, and the other half searching for an exit. In those loves, we always need to grow. We need to experience it.
Within time, so many people are waiting for love in this place. Some people don't fall in love because they think everything should be prepared, but love never comes to you when you're ready, it's about meeting someone you can work together to make everything beautiful.
Always thinking everything can be made up for, always thinking happiness can be waited for at that time. We often prepare for our happiness, but happiness is actually waiting for us to find it. Watching time slowly grow us up, gradually, I can feel the ruthlessness of those times. Because the people I thought I could wait for have disappeared, the happiness I thought I could wait for has disappeared.
I went to the heartbreak museum with friends, and seeing a wedding dress made me cry. I wore a wedding dress for that person and prepared everything, imagining saying those words we had said countless times to each other at the wedding. But on that day, he didn't appear. Because of a car accident. Our waiting became a nightmare. Time always turns over, taking away our beautiful years, and ruthlessly taking away those people who are beside us.
Looking back at the past, looking at the road we came from, guarding the footprints we've taken. Watching those people who have already left, asking myself: were these what I wanted? If not, why did I let myself end up like this? Time has no emotion, time doesn't favor anyone, it just walks on, fair and reasonable, treating all things equally. I dare not say anything, but it still makes me sad. Remembering Zhang Ruohui's poem: Who first saw the moon by the river? When did the moon first shine on people? The lonely moon in the sky, when did it start to have feelings with people. Truly, when those moments slip away, I really miss you. In those late nights, in those moments of loneliness.
Time never gives you a chance to regret. Life is always full of regrets, thorny, painful, and unsaid. Concealment, only you understand.
Have you been hurt by love? Have those times that are called 'water' simply taken away the person you loved? Have you met someone who loves you or you love?
I think, you should go and meet, go and understand the growth in love within time. The details between you and your partner, the scenes of holding hands and kissing, collected by time, will be washed yellow by time, and those moments will be cherished. Time is cold as water, try your best to love the person you love. Because all we can do is not let our hearts freeze into wounds.
