Why Do People Change? (Heartfelt Reflection)
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Forever cherish any passion, don't flatter any indifference, use your preferred way, proud to go on!
Time is silent, but it can change many things, verify many lies.
People are all prone to change, from childish to mature, from simple to complex, from direct to cautious, from carefree to guarded.
Each of us is born with a blank sheet, but we've become stained with colors that don't belong to us in this vast social dye pot, wearing thick masks to conceal our true thoughts.
Previously, when falling down, we would cry and wait for someone to help; now, having received so many wounds, we remain silent and handle the injuries quietly, continuing to move forward.
Previously, when loving someone, we could give everything without consequences; now, even if we still love someone, if we don't get the results, we'll choose to let go.
Over the years, I've been changing, and so have the people around me. No one knows what those changes are caused by, or what they've learned; we only know that many changes aren't voluntary.
Why do people change?
When passionate people become silent, it's because they've been deceived;
When sincere people become fake, it's because they've been disappointed;
When persistent people become indifferent, it's because they've become cold-hearted……
Life is like this, bound by fate, and helplessly powerless.
Others help you when facing difficulties, you always try to take advantage of you, and you always tolerate it. But in the end, your efforts don't receive gratitude, and tolerance doesn't bring kindness; instead, it's used as a soft target to be exploited.
You've experienced so many similar things, and finally learned to be ruthless.
Who doesn't want to maintain a kind heart and a simple life, but this society tells us that if you don't change, you'll be exploited and hurt.
People always like to bully the weak and spare the strong. If you're soft-hearted, they'll escalate; if you harden your heart, they'll respect you, even admire you. This is reality!
In this world, nothing is unchanging. The more you experience, the more you change.
But no matter how you change, we're always trying to protect ourselves, and to struggle to survive in this cold world, every minute and every second for ourselves.
Life is a long journey of cultivation. Falling down teaches us to be strong, being injured teaches us to grow.
But no matter what you become, I'm still me. The only difference is that I no longer say anything without thinking, and I no longer believe anyone without considering it.
The relationship between people is simple, it all depends on a warm heart. Return the favor, it's about sincerity; exchange hearts with heart, it's about being sincere.
After letting go of worldly concerns and accepting the bitterness of the world, I finally understand that many things are unimportant, and it's for ourselves to live, every minute and every second for ourselves.
Forever cherish any passion, don't flatter any indifference, use your preferred way, proud to go on!
Why do people get old?
I think if the heart doesn't age, it will always be young
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