Be Honest, But Also Have Principles; Be Kind, But Also Have Sharpness
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Honest people have good character, associating with such people will make you feel solid and reassuring.
Many honest people just feel that helping others is self-evident, it is a virtue that should be inherited, but they never want to protect themselves first.
It's not wrong to be honest in people, but in today's complex society, being too honest without a little sharpness can be easily harmed, easily bullied, making yourself suffer.
The personality of honest people is too simple, they don't know how to protect themselves. But society is a field of interests, it is also a competitive field. If you don't maintain your own legitimate interests, you will easily be bullied and exploited.
Being honest is a virtue, but it shouldn't allow bad people to take advantage of your 'honesty'
It's admirable to be honest, but in today's complex society, it can sometimes become a fatal weakness.
Good people should not be wasted, bad people are not worth helping. Many people are bullied because they have handed knives to others. Your kindness gives others the opportunity, your weakness allows them to be reckless.
People's kindness needs to have edges, you will be rewarded, if you are too honest, you will easily give small people a chance. People's hearts are divided by their stomachs, some people you treat well, they may not be sincere to you.
Submitting to hardship is the biggest characteristic of honest people, they think that by following the intentions of others, they will be satisfied. But they don't know that if this continues, others will think you are obedient, and when you show resistance, they will think you are disobedient, and they will take action to bully you.
Therefore, for some things that violate your principles, don't easily compromise with others. For people who are unwilling to yield, who always make you do things beyond your capabilities, you must not be afraid to refuse him. Otherwise, if you step back step by step, it will only make you suffer, and only by decisively refusing can you avoid trouble.
Truly intelligent honest people don't cause trouble, but they are never afraid of trouble.
Honest people are not really honest, but they don't want to cause trouble, to be a generous person.
I do things based on this principle, no matter where I am, I will never actively harm others, but if someone bullies me, I will fight back.
Some people like to bully the weak and fear the strong, when they see you are kind, they will bully you. I used to take a passive attitude, but the other party intensified, so I decided that in the future I would not do this, when I need to defend my rights, I will stand up, and when necessary, I will tear their faces off.
Do nothing when there is nothing to do, when there is something to do, don't be timid, small matters don't matter, big matters don't look sloppy, soft doesn't deceive, hard doesn't fear, righteous and upright, who can contend with me. Truly intelligent honest people understand that they shouldn't give others the impression that they are afraid, they shouldn't be timid and shrink back. Otherwise, people won't underestimate you, and they won't easily bully you.
Wheat entrusts: even if you are honest, you must have principles, and even if you are kind, you must have a sharp edge.
Many very honest people, they are tolerant and retreat, others treat them kindly, and they repay them with evil. Therefore, it is not necessary to be without principle and without reason, honest people also need to have some strong 'sharp edges'.
Honest people want to avoid being bullied and not be bullied, want to maintain their kindness, honest people must make their kindness have a sharp edge, so that kindness is not a reason for being bullied and taken advantage of, to achieve 'soft but not weak', 'kind but not excessive'.
Honest people need to remember: 'You can be heartless, but you can't be senseless; you can appear foolish on the outside, but you must never truly be stupid inside'. After all, there are always bad people in this society, and one of the characteristics of these bad people is to take advantage of others' kindness.
Therefore, your kindness must have a bottom line, don't let small people calculate, don't be bullied by bad people, protect yourself well. This is not to harm others, but to protect yourself.
Author: Wheat, a writer and coffee lover, I'm happy to meet you in my words, and I hope to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to make your life like a poem. Special statement: Picture source network, if infringement, please contact to delete, salute the original author.
