Is it normal for someone who doesn't like visiting other people's homes and doesn't like letting others visit their own?
Wheat | Ling Xiaomei
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Before my house had a neighbor who would come over to visit from time to time, she would stay for two or three hours each time, which was very annoying.
Sometimes when I was about to do something, she wouldn't leave, I didn't want to bother her, so I was always delayed in doing things. Later, I couldn't help it, so I politely refused her visit. Now, I don't like to go to other people's homes, and I don't like to let others come to my home.
In life, I don't like to go to other people's homes, and I don't like to let others come to my home, is this normal?
Actually, this is very normal, and there's nothing strange about it. If you are like this, please believe in yourself: it's normal, and there's no need to be self-deprecating and anxious about it.
I am like this, my husband often says I'm not sociable, relatives say I'm too aloof, always talking about me behind my back. I never pay attention to their evaluations, because I just like to be quiet.
Life is your own, it's most important to satisfy yourself.
Many times, 'not sociable' doesn't mean you are a lonely person, it just means this group doesn't suit you.
I don't like to go to other people's homes, and I don't like to let others come to my home, is this normal? Of course it's normal, and people who are like this are more willing to live their own way, and they understand how to satisfy themselves.
I rarely go out to visit, except to return home to visit my parents and go to my sister's home, most of the time I spend alone, I focus on work at work, and I help my children with their studies at home, and then I read books and listen to music.
I yearn for a life like this, when I'm idle, I tidy up the house, read books, exercise, I don't like to chat and socialize, this lifestyle makes me feel free and comfortable,
Because I don't go to other people's homes and don't like others to come to my home, I don't need to flatter anyone or make friends, and I don't have to worry about offending anyone. It feels very relaxed and free.
Solitude is one thing, and it's a state of being.
Stephen Hawking said: 'Without a certain degree of solitude, there will be no inner peace.'
People who are rich in emotion like to be alone, those who are empty inside are afraid of being alone. As you grow older, you will find that you are no longer afraid of being alone, but gradually like being alone,
A person's life is short, and there are many things to do, there's no need to squeeze into circles you don't like, you don't need to worry about others' opinions and judgments. Remember: you just need to be yourself.
Author: Ling Xiaomei, a girl who likes words and coffee, I'm happy to meet you in my words, and I want to accompany you to live your life like a poem. Special statement: picture source network, if infringement please contact to delete, salute the original author.
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