If you beg me kneeling, I won’t stay with you. A man who does these things, women shouldn't be soft-hearted
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In life, people are always saying that time is stronger than time, in fact, it is time that is stronger than our changes, always thought that companionship is the most common confession in the world, later realized that any kind of companionship is not enough to withstand time and plain days.
Duantian and her boyfriend of six years broke up, just this year's anniversary.
They had said that after 'seven years of itch', they would get married, but they finally couldn't persevere for seven years, they broke up in the end. What's painful for Duantian is that at this sixth anniversary, her boyfriend not only didn't take her to a candlelit dinner, but also brought a girl home.
That night, when she heard the knock on the door, Duantian quickly opened the door happily, when she saw her boyfriend and another girl came in, she was stunned. Before she could speak, her boyfriend introduced to her that the girl was his customer, and she came to her home to talk about work, so she asked her for a meal.
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The girl was very straightforward and greeted her, but Duantian felt flustered. Her boyfriend asked her to accompany the girl to chat in the living room, saying he would go to the kitchen to make dinner. Watching her boyfriend busy in the kitchen, she felt a surge of resentment, and she had never cooked for her boyfriend before.
When her boyfriend brought the food out, Duantian was surprised again, because her boyfriend never eats spicy food, he made a bowl of Dan Dan noodles for her, saying that the girl was from Hunan, and loved spicy food.
Duantian's heart was like being stabbed with a knife, she was from Sichuan, and to take care of her boyfriend not eating spicy, she had to give up on her favorite spicy hot pot and spicy fish, and accompany her to eat steamed fish.
During the meal, she looked at her boyfriend diligently bringing her vinegar and napkins, and she realized for the first time that her boyfriend also knew how to take care of a girl.
However, they had always been Duantian taking care of her boyfriend, and she had gotten used to it. Now seeing her boyfriend treating another girl like this, she realized that she should be taken care of by her boyfriend too.
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Her boyfriend left to take the girl away, Duantian silently tidied up her things, waiting for her boyfriend to return, when she saw her boyfriend return, she took her things out of the house and took a taxi to her friend's house. The next day, her boyfriend came to apologize to her, and he also bought a ring and proposed to her, saying that he would only love her.
Duantian asked about the girl, her boyfriend said that she was just his customer, and yesterday she came to her home to talk about a transaction, if the transaction could be completed, he could earn a large amount of commission, and he could give her a grand wedding.
Duantian heard these words, softened, after all, they had been in love for six years, she still loved her boyfriend very much. She disregarded her friend's persuasion and brought her luggage back to that small house where she had lived for six years.
Duantian received a WeChat message from her friend, in which she said that Duantian was too easily persuaded, two flattering words were enough to make her give in, and she said she was willing to be a free nanny, so it was right for her to be persuaded.
At the weekend, her boyfriend said that he would come home soon, but he didn't return until she went downstairs to greet him. When she went downstairs, she didn't see her boyfriend, so she went ahead and back. Suddenly, she saw a familiar figure embracing a girl, and the two were her boyfriend and the girl he had said before.
Duantian then realized the truth, she walked up to her boyfriend and gave him a slap. Later, she told her friend, 'I thought time was the best proof of love, but love was eventually eroded by plainness. When I became a six-year-free nanny, I had to wake up.'
In love, women can sincerely treat men, but they must not have any bottom line, they must learn to love themselves and grow, in order to master the initiative, instead of being passive and being harmed in the end.
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Author: Xue Luo Wu Chen, a counselor and writer. If you have any emotional concerns, you can send me a private message.
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