To many, is it “to be yourself”?

Is ‘being yourself’ really so happy?

It’s as if only by ignoring the voices of the majority and obeying the ‘I’ within can one truly experience that cool, aloof feeling.

In fact, people misunderstand the key point of ‘being yourself’——It should be about shedding the gaze of others and respecting one’s own choices, rather than emphasizing ‘I’ itself.

Although being eccentric is cool, those who are too ‘self-absorbed’ are usually lonely, sad, and miserable.

And ‘being engrossed’ people are often very happy.

For example, children who often get ‘engrossed’ in play, conductors, pianists, photographers, athletes—these people are always fully invested in the event they are undertaking,The concept of ‘I’ completely disappears in the process.

Focusing on ‘I’ is difficult to be happy.

For example, the ‘entertainment industry’, which has a high suicide rate, requires performers topay attention to their ‘I’’s image, speech, achievements, and even their lifestyle—after all, some ‘special’ fans think that idol’s having a toilet break is something everyone’s business.

Although the entertainment industry also emphasizes full immersion, compared topaying attention to the ‘outside of self’ in the artistic industry, such as painting, photography and writing,artists often have topay attention to their ‘I’’s artist, and because of their pursuit of perfect self, they are more prone to depression.

And those painters, writers, and musicians who suffer from ‘mood disorder’ are often difficult for others to perceive.At this time, ‘being engrossed’ is needed to care for the ‘he’ who is hard to perceive, and thenbecome the ‘he’ who makes ‘I’ better.

We believe that ‘being engrossed’ world will become more happy.

It’s better to find something that can let you ‘be engrossed’ to do.Even if these things seem like faint stars in a black night sky, hold on tightly to them.‘The Times’ reported that in the future, doctors’ prescriptions may include ‘keeping a puppy will greatly help your depression’.

Scientists have conclusive evidence that keeping pets and showing love are better ways to treat psychological diseases—

more attention should be paid to the ‘weak’ and others who need care, rather than filling the heart with ‘I’.In addition, more travel, immersing oneself in a ‘being engrossed’ sport, or art that doesn’t focus on ‘I’, or someone who makes you happy—fill your heart with these things.

If you feel ‘I’ is not happy,you can find something that can let you ‘be engrossed’ to do.

Even if these things seem like faint stars in a black night sky, hold on tightly to them.The ‘Fool’s card is about to step into the cliff, which reminds us that in April 1, 2003, Zhang Guorong left this world.

Many gossip media said that Zhang Guorong did not die, he just entered the empty seat and left the world; some said that Brother Zhang has gone into the world and left worries.

Whether leaving the world or entering the ‘being engrossed’ empty seat, we believe that Zhang Guorong would rather let people

remember his works, not his abandoned ‘I’

—this is what all artists expect.

Become the ‘he’ who makes ‘I’ better.

As early as the ancient Greeks, people noticed that mania (mania) and depression (depression) alternate states, at that time, doctor Aretaeus recorded a group of people at times singing and dancing, laughing and talking, at times sad, sluggish, and discouraged.This is a psychological disorder called ‘bipolar disorder’:sometimes happy and ‘being engrossed’ with creativity, the next second is depressed and discouraged denying life…

This state is very similar to ‘normal’ people.

Many people with ‘bipolar disorder’ are often very creative and infectious: Beethoven, Van Gogh, Schumann, Evelyn Evelyn—but they are also

afflicted with ‘mood disorder’ and difficult for others to perceive.At this time, ‘being engrossed’ is needed to care for the ‘he’ who is hard to perceive, and then

become the ‘he’ who makes ‘I’ better.

We believe that ‘being engrossed’ world will become more happy.It’s better to find something that can let you ‘be engrossed’ to do.

The ‘Fool’s card is about to step into the cliff, which reminds us that in April 1, 2003, Zhang Guorong left this world.Many gossip media said that Zhang Guorong did not die, he just entered the empty seat and left the world; some said that Brother Zhang has gone into the world and left worries.

We believe that ‘being engrossed’ world will become more happy.