Seize and Release: Everyone Should Be Able to Achieve It
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You need to be able to grasp it and let it go. Grasping it is a sense of responsibility; letting it go is also a sense of responsibility.
In life, there must be giving and receiving. When you 'grab' it, you must take on the responsibility. When you need to 'let go,' you must not hesitate and let it go decisively.
'Not grasping, not letting go' is cowardice in the face of difficulties; not letting go itself is also a kind of cowardice. Life should not be timid and fearful. We need to be a little bolder. For example, in love, we should be able to 'dare to love and dare to hate'
Some people think 'This is a serious matter' after a breakup. In fact, it's all you're imagining. How serious could it be? Life goes on anyway.
Life is also like this. Everyone's life will encounter difficulties. When you encounter them, you need to bravely take on responsibility. This sense of responsibility is what we call 'grabbing it.' When you need to 'let go' of something one day, you must let it go without hesitation.
Some say 'This is easy to say, but difficult to do'
Yes, it's hard to do. But no matter how difficult it is, we must do it with our heart. And we must do it.
Only by truly doing it can we make our lives more brilliant.
'Grab it and let it go,' we hope you can all achieve it.
Perhaps you can't do it at this moment. But it doesn't mean you can't. Sometimes, it's because you don't want to try. Sometimes, it's because you don't have confidence. Sometimes, it's really because your current ability is not enough.
But whatever the reason, I believe that as long as we have the determination, we will definitely be able to do it.
When you really achieve this, you'll find that life can be lived in a different way. Yes, we all know the principle of 'light load's journey.' So, when you carry too much, you'll feel tired.
Why should you feel so tired?
When you need to 'grab,' grab it seriously and bravely. When you need to 'let go,' let it go without hesitation and immediately.
Then start a new journey.
Life is a journey. In this process, we need to constantly examine ourselves. According to the current situation, we need to make our own choices.
From this point of view, life is actually a 'choosing' journey. Every stage of life has different things we need to deal with. And if we handle these things well, our lives will become more brilliant and rich.
Everyone's life is different, so don't ask others how to handle these things. Ask yourself, listen to your inner voice.When you hesitate whether to 'grab' it, when you hesitate whether to 'let go.' Tell yourself: Don't think about such useless questions, just do it immediately.
'Grab it,' 'let it go.'
Life has no ifs and buts.
You often hear heartbroken people say 'If I had cherished it, if I had put in a little more effort, if I had known the truth earlier, we wouldn't have broken up.'
At this time, everyone seems to suddenly become much smarter. Everyone can become 'Grastern' after the fact. But what good is that?
We need to live in the present, we need to make choices according to the specific situation now. We can't be too hesitant, hesitation is wasting your life.
Yes, time will not stop. It has its own rhythm.
For those who 'grab' and 'let go,' their lives can only be wasted.As Tolstoy said:
Human beings are the most valuable thing. Life belongs to one person only. A person's life should be spent in such a way: when recalling the past, he will not regret because of wasting time, nor will he be ashamed because of being idle. When he is dying, he can say: 'My whole life and all my energy have been dedicated to the most magnificent cause of humanity – the struggle for human liberation'
So, for our own lives, we need to cherish time, we need to understand the importance of choosing. Life has no ifs and buts, you need to 'grab it and let it go'
