One Audio | The Life You're Tired Of Might Be What Others Desire
Years without contacting a friend suddenly called, saying there was nothing to worry about, just wanted to talk to me. I was at work, busy with a task, said a few words and hung up in a hurry.
Late at night, after getting home, I thought about it repeatedly, worried that the friend would be polite, if something hadn't come to my attention, I called her back. We chatted for half an hour, it was really nothing, just talking about our lives.
The friend is my university classmate. She chose to stay in a comfortable and relaxed small town, and I chose to go to a big city to see the world. Once, I was very envious of her life: she had a stable job in a small town, a spacious house, and most importantly, she could walk to work without constantly rushing on the subway. I often regretted my choice, but there was no way, I could only smile and keep moving forward. Over time, I gradually liked the big city.
Unexpectedly, the friend was also envious of me. Small towns have small towns' limitations, and there are many trivial things that annoy people. Later in the conversation, we both sighed equally, and it was not an accident. Everyone has their own difficulties, and you may not necessarily understand their lives.

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Who's life is easy? Will life's worries and hardships be divided by region?
Last night, while taking the subway home, a well-dressed middle-aged man was standing next to me, holding a laptop bag in one hand and a handbag in the other. The handbag was full of books and documents, very heavy. His phone rang, he moved the handbag to his shoulder and raised his arm to answer. The carriage was very crowded, and the phone buzzed, and he was very anxious, and the handbag bumped into the people around him, so he had to apologize to the people around him while answering the phone. From his phone, I roughly knew that the middle-aged man was going to catch a train, and he would give a lecture in another city the next morning.
He looked very tired, but he had to keep going. I imagined that he would speak humorously and energetically on the stage tomorrow. Perhaps the audience sitting below was secretly envious of him.
Life is like this: when you know someone else's background story, you will realize your own happiness.
We often complain about crowded subways, but at least, after we finish work, we can return to our warm homes and have a hot meal at the table. Some people are still rushing on the road.
Behind any dazzling success, there is an equal cost. Everyone has their own difficulties and regrets.
Yishi says: 'The sign of a truly mature person is realizing that fewer and fewer people you can blame. The reason is simple: everyone has their own difficulties, and you may not necessarily understand their lives.'
A poem says: 'Life is like biting a flower with your teeth to grow.' Because we are alive, we must filter out our sadness and disappointment, treat the obstacles we encounter in front of us lightly, and be happy every day. At the same time, we must treat others kindly.
Author: Gwen Yanju
Anchor: Cong Lingru
Post-production: Cong Lingru
Editor: Xin Cong, Cong Lingru
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