Trashy Socializing is Better Than Solitude
Although many friendships were made through wine and food, it turned out that few of them truly valued him.
Like Old Joe, many people believe that 'connections are money,' and they eagerly attend every gathering, fearing they'll be forgotten.
Obviously, people who love socializing often think they have many friends, but in reality, they know that the real masters of social gatherings are not friendship, but fashion, interests, or just boredom.
True friendship is quiet and understated.
Some people praise strangers, but resent their friends, so we often lack confidantes. We surround ourselves with superficial acquaintances.
You like crowded and lively gatherings, he prefers to be alone;
You like to eat spicy noodles, he thinks they smell awful;
You talk endlessly about your favorite movies, he finds it boring.
Such friends may not have bad intentions, but when you're together, you just have a word or two of silence and disagreement. It's better to let them go.
Three different values are not compatible. You don't need to force yourself to be friends with everyone. For those who don't fit together, maintain a polite distance.
2. Seeing you do well is a thorn in his eyes
People often admire strangers, but resent friends, so we are often short of confidantes. We surround ourselves with superficial acquaintances.
When you celebrate, he is jealous; when you succeed, he is resentful. We are often short of confidantes. We are often short of confidantes.
When you do something great, she laughs at you for having a short attention span and won't be able to keep it up;
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You plan to take the graduate exam, she says you've been working for so long, you won't be able to pass;
You've just made a new boyfriend, she starts to criticize him immediately.
At the end, she adds: 'It's because I'm good to you, so I said this. You won't be annoyed, right?'
Remember, a good relationship is not 'bitter tongue,' those who constantly depress you don't have good intentions for you. They just want to feel superior for a moment.
3. Friends who constantly exploit you
Some people are like 'big babies' and cannot be independent. They don't know how to be grateful and consume the friends around them.
She complains to you for days because she's in a bad mood;
She insists on going shopping and watching movies with you;
She buys and buys, but doesn't earn money herself. She uses you as a cash machine.
If you're bad to her, she'll still say you're too cold and petty. It's better to let her go.
Low-quality social networking is better than high-quality solitude.
Those who waste their energy on 'garbage social networking' are not filling their inner emptiness, nor are they masking their own inability. They are just trying to fill their time.
They claim to have many friends, but their WeChat contacts have added thousands of people, but no one reaches out to help when they're in trouble.
They introduce you to various bigwigs and celebrities, but when you need help, no one will lend a hand.
When you are strong, people look down on you. When you are weak, people will support you. The stronger you are, the fewer people will bother you. It's better to be alone and strong.
Mr. Li Ka-shing once advised young people:
When you haven't yet become strong or outstanding, don't waste too much precious time and energy on socializing, attending various gatherings, and see more of your customers.
Abandon these useless social networks, improve yourself, and your world will be bigger.
People who are not strong cannot rely on social networks to help you. They don't believe in building their own strength. In the end, they are empty-handed.
You should focus on improving yourself rather than relying on social relationships. The more you are, the less you have.
When you are strong, people look down on you. When you are weak, people will support you. The more you are, the less you have.
Mr. Bill Gates once spent two weeks every year in a lakeside cabin, cutting off all social networks, closing the door to guests, and only reading and thinking, researching the next steps in his decision-making.
In his opinion, the value generated during this time is greater than the dinner he ate with various officials and celebrities.
Life is fair. The stronger you are, the fewer people will bother you. The weaker you are, the more people will bother you.
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In his opinion, the value generated during this time is greater than the dinner he ate with various officials and celebrities.
To keep your mind sharp, you should spend more time reflecting than socializing.
The best relationships are those you create yourself.
It is better to have a small number of true friends than many superficial acquaintances.
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