The world is fickle, no need to cater to others; be indifferent to praise and blame, detach from gains and losses, and live a simple and tranquil life.
To be human is to be half smart and half foolish. Turn the discerning eyes of your own shortcomings and mistakes; be like a mirror, meticulously observing every detail, leaving no room for error. Turn the gaze of others towards the foolish, failing to see the faults and merits of others; even if you don't see it, you should at least learn to acknowledge it and speak out. Saying something can hurt, and silence is tolerance.
Don't care what others say about you behind your back; these words cannot change the facts, but they can disrupt your heart. If your heart is disturbed, everything is chaotic. Those who understand you don't need to explain; those who don't understand you don't deserve your explanation. The greatest charm of a person is a sunny attitude. Life is like a chessboard; once a piece is placed, it cannot be reversed. Life is like a long river, flowing east and never turning back.
Life is your own, hoping we all live it. Along the way, you will inevitably encounter obstacles; love affairs, there will always be bitter and sweet. Don't ask others to fulfill your expectations; when the road is blocked, learn to turn. Don't demand perfection from yourself; when you can't succeed, learn to forget. When things are difficult, learn to let go; when relationships fade, choose freely.
You are not a superhero, you will get tired, you will hurt, you will cry, you will be sad, you will be helpless, you will be powerless. But you must understand yourself. Don't be too demanding, and don't easily compromise. Try harder, do things with a plan and steps. Believe that there will always be a breeze to blow away all worries. People who are too many hearts are destined to live hard, because they are easily influenced by others' emotions.
You can tolerate poverty, but not betrayal; you can pursue wealth, but not indulge; you can express opinions, but not stir up trouble; you can not be a kind person, but not a villain; you can not have a degree, but not have a moral character; you can not say thank you, but not be grateful.
Water may be murky, but through long sedimentation, it will still be exceptionally clear; people may be dull, but with enough effort, they can rewrite their destiny. Don't complain about a bad birth; we cannot choose our parents; don't be resentful of a low starting point; that's just our original point. Life is a long fight; some people laugh at the beginning, and some win at the end. Fate does not favor anyone; it depends on how long you chase and how long you persevere.
The world is fickle, no need to cater to others, human nature is cold and warm, don't pay attention to it. Be in the midst of all things, be in all things. Quietly listen to the tide rising and falling, and watch the geese fly away in the sky. Indifferent to praise and blame, detached from gains and losses, treat gains and losses, honor and disgrace with a nonchalant attitude, and view life's gains and losses with a detached perspective. In the noisy world, you can still be simple and quiet, and enjoy life and life with tranquility.
Why don't others treat you as a priority because you speak too much, you readily give everything, and you forgive all mistakes! Some people are used to getting things without gratitude; they've forgotten to be gracious because they're too kind. Thousands of beautiful futures are not worth a warm present; every real present is the future we once dreamed of.
Life has no bottom, only. When you're in pain, stop and heal the wounds in your heart, dry your tears and move on; when you give up, stop and make difficult choices, and regain your spirit and move on. Sometimes we stop to go further. The years flow like water, the years pass like a song, only leaving behind faded memories, drifting with the wind, forming a patch of mottled memories, past prosperity has turned into a lifetime of loneliness.
Everyone has their own story. Each cup of tea has its own meaning. How much you expect tea, tea will give you that much emotion. The tea in the cup, drink and wish; the road of life, walk and cherish.
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