These ‘Over-the-Top’ Phrases Shouldn’t Be Said
Original by ┃ Wan Hongyun
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Hongyun Guidance:Rolling red dust, people come and go, there is joy and sorrow. We yearn for happy life in ordinary days, so we should cherish it and keep moving forward. Hongyun wishes to bring full of positive energy to share with everyone, encourage each other, and solve heart-to-heart conversations. Big waves wash away sand, washing away countless days, leaving true words in a few sentences. Not flowery and frivolous words, but genuine and heartfelt feelings for everyone to understand.
In life, some people, when they're happy, start to talk nonsense, saying whatever comes to mind. Others, after drinking a little alcohol, become even more verbose, unable to control their words, saying anything they think of.
Elders often teach us to think carefully before speaking. Some words shouldn't be spoken until they're fully considered. It shouldn't be casual, let alone spoken without thinking. Therefore, these speaking habits are all wrong.
In life, especially the following three 'over-the-top' words, must not be said. Whether it's after drinking too much alcohol or feeling too happy, it's absolutely forbidden to say these!
The first sentence that cannot be said 'over-the-top' words: Unreachable promises
Unreachable promises cannot be said. Words spoken cannot be retrieved. Li Chun, during a gathering with classmates after drinking, became overly verbose. He thought it was just among classmates, so he mentioned that his younger brother is a bank manager and can lend money. He asked how much it would be and how much he could borrow.
Saying without intention, listening with intention. Not long after, a female classmate actually came to the bank and asked his brother for help, requesting a loan of over 100,000. She even repeatedly hinted that she and Li Chun were classmates. However, the bank manager reviewed it and refused to grant the loan. The female classmate immediately sent a message to Li Chun, accusing him of lying, saying his brother couldn't help at all.
Actually, it's not Li Chun's younger brother who couldn't help. As a leader, all funds are state property, and as a bank manager, he must adhere to regulations, otherwise, if the money is not recovered, he will bear the responsibility.
Therefore, it's only fair to blame Li Chun for saying too much and making 'over-the-top' promises, causing unnecessary misunderstandings.
The second sentence that cannot be said 'over-the-top' words: A lifetime without relying on others
Some people are naturally boastful. However, when doing things, one must be careful. No matter how boastful, one must not say 'a lifetime without relying on others'. If a person has the idea of 'a lifetime without relying on others', that person is bound to achieve something. Even if fate is not good, heaven will help him achieve a great career.
If one says 'a lifetime without relying on others' with one's mouth, it's too much. No one can say they will never rely on others in their lifetime. One must leave room for oneself. Otherwise, it's like fighting with oneself.
The moon is full and then it shrinks; water is full and then it overflows. Speaking in person is especially so. If one speaks too much, it will be viewed suspiciously. The road ahead is long, and no one can guarantee a lifetime without relying on others.
One can be a hero, but one's mouth must leave room for oneself.
The third sentence that cannot be said 'over-the-top' words: Endless descendants' wealth
No matter how much property your parents leave behind, or how much business you have done, in the end, this is only for the present, not for the future, and certainly not for descendants. If you are proud because you have wealth, then the children's education will definitely be a serious problem. They will be influenced by you and may develop habits of laziness and greed.
Even if there is a lot of money, it won't stand the test of descendants ruining it. Even if there is a lot of money, it won't withstand the consumption of lazy and wasteful descendants. A person's life is really long, and no one can see the end result. Therefore, leaving room for oneself is to leave room for oneself.
