Emotions Reach Their End, They Become Silence

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In this impetuous society, it seems difficult to maintain silence. In my opinion, those who remain silent radiate a kind of brilliance.
Montaigne said: 'Silence is more beneficial to social interactions than words uttered without sincerity.'
Naturally, people who remain silent become rarer.
Some people are quiet and taciturn, seemingly out of sync with this fast-paced society.
So, in this noisy world, why do you choose to be quiet?
Because it's a matter of detachment, because you've grown indifferent to the joys and sorrows of the world, and you've seen that many things don't deserve your emotional involvement and disputes, you've understood the dark 'rules' within human relationships, morality, and society,
In the confining cage of anxiety, you begin to break free, to break free from the constraints of human relationships, to break free from past phrases like 'It's just a small matter, I'll help out' or 'Friends help each other' – words that exhaust you,
Therefore, you choose silence, learn to be subtle, learn to refuse, and you also learn to grow.
Silence doesn't mean surrender, nor does it mean discouragement. It's simply a way to protect yourself, a way to survive and not be harmed in this vast world.
Because it's a matter of detachment, therefore you are silent, and because you are silent, you grow.

You eventually learn to look beyond the trivialities of human relationships and gossip, and you ultimately choose to withdraw from it,
Silence doesn't mean compromise; it's simply a way to protect yourself, and it's also an expression of detachment from society,
Some say that a person is born with an open mouth and should speak a lot. In my opinion, this isn't the case. A person's best cultivation comes from dialogue, from speaking little, from speaking clearly and precisely, which is worthy of admiration,
Some people blurt out 'damn it' in public, and that's certainly not a display of quality,
Conversely, if you see someone quietly reading a book in a noisy environment, it will bring you a sense of seclusion and beauty,
It's revealed that a person's cultivation can be shown through silence and taciturnity,
Speaking little is also a kind of cultivation. It doesn't mean a person can't speak; it simply means that a person speaks with consideration and restraint, maintaining a balance between quantity and quality of words,
Non-conflict and non-argument, non-argument and non-chaos, quiet solitude and non-contention – this is surely the best state in life,
Gradually, you begin to like spending time alone, you like going shopping and buying clothes alone, you like enjoying the coolness of the sea breeze and the softness of the sand alone,
After a long time, you will get used to it, you will no longer be the weak and fearful person you used to be, afraid of being alone, afraid of not having anyone to sleep with, afraid of having no friends – these are the results of your independence,
Silence makes a person mature, makes a person understand right from wrong, and it makes one realize that everything in the world is not as important as one imagines,

Because it's a matter of detachment, therefore you are silent, and because you are silent, you grow.
A person only has one life to live, so why shouldn't we live it happily and happily?
Don't dwell on rumors and gossip, don't participate in idle chatter, be the best version of yourself, and withdraw from the noisy world,
In a pleasant weekend, you can sit on the balcony, brew a cup of tea, take a book, enjoy the morning sunshine, and enjoy the charm of the book. When you're tired, put on headphones and take a short nap. When you're hungry, make a dish you love yourself,
Don't participate in disputes, don't participate in arguments.
After all, differing opinions do not lead to cooperation.
Solitude is not a bad thing. Liking solitude doesn't mean being solitary, because you've become detached from things and have grown mature,
Truly mature people will have an inner hermit who retreats in seclusion.

May you be calm and composed in the face of any situation, and may you be silent in response.