Being Too Good to Someone Eventually Leads to Exhaustion...
even if you've suffered a lot,
the other party doesn't even notice.
Being too good to one person, over time,
he will take advantage of you,
making increasingly unreasonable demands on you.
Too easily obtained,
often won't be cherished.
Don't be too good to one person,
you'll spoil his temper,
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doing too much as a good person,
others will say you lack loyalty,
if you lose your temper,
others will say you have a bad temper.
Don't be too good to one person,
you'll gradually lose yourself,
with everything being tolerated,
he'll feel like you're being favored,
escalating the situation,
constantly calling and scolding you.
Don't be too good to one person,
one day you'll find:
the more unconditionally you're good to him,
the less he treats you as a priority.
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In life, there are always some people,
accustomed to your (fù chū - giving)
but forget to thank you,
accustomed to your (jiān qiáng - strength),
forgetting that you also need care,
accustomed to your (dà dù - magnanimity),
forgetting to restrain themselves!
In this world,
emotions are the thinnest,
hearts are the coldest.
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It's not wrong to be a good person,
but you need to have boundaries,
Being too good to one person,
hurts yourself.
Dear,
don't let your kindness become cheap,
and don't let your goodness become someone else's capital to hurt you.
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A thing,
if you expect too much,
you will become increasingly disappointed,
a relationship,
if you give too much,
you will become increasingly tired,
a person,
the better you are to them,
the more painful you become.
Please remember:
if you care too much,
you lose,
if you go with the flow,
you win!
In this world,
not everyone will reciprocate,
don't always take others too seriously,
don't take yourself too lightly.
Eat seven parts full,
