Why Do Some People Not Post Photos of Their Children on WeChat Moments? What Are They Thinking?
Yes, isn't there a group of people on your friends' circle who share photos of their kids eating, riding, standing, sitting, falling, even using the toilet? But there’s also a part of people you almost forget they have kids because they never share photos of them.
Let’s take a look at the three people who might think this way!
Haha, probably just because they think their child is cute. So I don't share photos of them.
’They are my own child, it looks good no matter what.’ So what? I don’t share photos of my child because it's just something you think is pretty. Maybe others would find it annoying.
Haha, ‘Since my child is so cute, others will like it.’ That's probably a lot of thinking.
In fact, besides family members and familiar friends, no one will really care about your child. The likes and compliments in the comments are just 'a bit of effort'. So I don't share!
Those who love to share are driven by vanity.
’The baby is immersed in wonderful music, how happy!’
’The baby can read English original versions, how amazing!’
’The baby’s drawing progress is really improving!’
Ugh, is it worthwhile to share this? It’s just vanity.It’s fine to have your own kid. Why do you need to let others know?
Anyway, I won’t share these things. Also, the things people share in their friends’ circle aren't necessarily the normal things in their lives. The baby is seriously reading the English version, but does he really understand it? The baby’s drawing is good, that’s just because you haven’t seen better ones!
I don’t want people to think my life is only about kids.
Having a child also means having your own social circle. Someone said, ‘The biggest difference after a woman becomes a mother is that she no longer shares her own life in her friends’ circle, but shares her child.’
Constantly sharing children seems to say: ‘My life revolves around my child’; ‘I only see the world through my child’s eyes.’
I don’t want people to have that misunderstanding, so I don't share photos of my child.
Of course, of course, the act of sharing photos of children in friends’ circle has different opinions. So the question is, how do you see the act of sharing photos of children in friends’ circle? Do you find it annoying or do you look forward to seeing others share photos of their children? Let’s discuss in the comments.
