Insightful and Moving Reflections on Life, Filled with Wisdom, Offering Profound Benefits
After encountering all kinds of people, you realize that only parents will wholeheartedly care for you, and no one will unconditionally trust you. You should have understood long ago that heaven will darken, and people will change. Life is so long and far, you can only rely on yourself, there's no other choice.
The world is so vast, just like one grain of rice can nourish a hundred different dishes. You can't expect everyone's worldview to align with yours. The only way is to become stronger, mentally invincible, to protect yourself from being harmed by selfish and narrow-minded people.
Enduring someone isn't out of fear, but out of kindness; letting someone go isn't because you owe them, but because of magnanimity. Not all concessions are praised, and not all tolerance leads to genuine affection. Forgiveness is difficult to achieve, but easy to talk about. Letting someone go, if it's with the right person, is worth it; if it's with the wrong person, it's heartbreaking. Some do good for you because they care; some smile at you for personal gain. Figure out who is genuine and who is fake; let them go, don't let yourself be hurt. Forgiveness is always self-harming, making others laugh. If your forgiveness doesn't bring gratitude, and your tolerance doesn't get cherished, then stop being wronged and helpless, live for yourself, and make others envy you.
The best life for a person is to read when there's a book to read, play when there's a chance to play, have your own hobbies and life, focus on yourself when no one loves you, and if someone loves you, have the ability to embrace each other.
Life is long, and we constantly oscillate between encounters and farewells. With the passage of time, some people come and go; some people stay and leave. However, we should all learn to cherish every encounter, cherish all footprints in our lives.
When children break up with their friends, they often announce it to everyone: 'I'm not playing with you anymore.' Grown-ups' departures are often silent and tacit, without a respectful farewell.
