We are all born and raised by parents, but each parent is not perfect, and has various problems. These problems became the reason why many people don't want to be filial to their parents. For example, some parents are irritable, some parents are partial, some parents are foolish and poor, some parents have outdated views, and some parents have physical health problems, especially when parents get old, their brains are not working well, they are dirty, smelly, and leave excrement on the bed, and their temper is worse. Parents are our first training object, we all start from parents to learn tolerance and love. No matter how our parents are, we should love and respect them. A person who can't even tolerate his parents will certainly be petty, irritable, and unwilling to compromise. Without a broad mind, how can we achieve great things? Therefore, when selecting officials, the emperor used to prioritize filial piety. In that case, when choosing a partner, we must prioritize whether we have filial piety. For boys, does the father have a sense of responsibility? For girls, does the mother have a temperamental nature? Otherwise, a person who doesn't even tolerate his parents' shortcomings will not tolerate your shortcomings, and people won't have a good reputation in society. Parents, regardless of how busy they are, regardless of whether it's day or night, rain or shine, will immediately put aside all their busy work when we are sick, and take care of us overnight. When our parents are sick, how much can we do? Is there no filial child in society? Life is not for complaining. As we grow up, our parents gradually get old, and eventually leave us. If we can’t even tolerate our parents, how can we tolerate the world? ‘Doing good starts with filial piety.’ From now on, don’t complain about your parents. One, don’t complain about parents’ incompetence. No one is perfect, and parents gave us life and worked hard to raise us, which is already a great effort. We shouldn't complain, ‘Dad should be a dad like this, Mom should be a mom like this,’ we should sincerely say, ‘I accept you as you are; I accept you as my parents; I enjoy everything you give me.’ Two, don’t complain about parents’ nagging. Parents nag us because they want us to be better. When we do well enough, they want us to be even better! They don't do this for themselves; maybe they have many misfortunes in life, or maybe they work very hard and can’t tell anyone, so they want us to be better, even if it's not to become a dragon or phoenix, parents just want us to surpass them, not to be like them. Three, don’t complain about parents’ complaints.When we get old, our movements will naturally be slow, we should never look down on our parents’ slow movements, because we can never imagine how patiently they taught us to walk when we were young. When we were young, maybe our parents were full of energy. It was for us that our parents bent their waist. If one day our parents get old and their legs and feet are not flexible, we must remember: looking at parents is looking at our future. Filial piety must be done in a timely manner. Five, don’t complain about parents’ illness. No matter how busy our parents are, no matter whether it's day or night, rain or shine, when we are sick, our parents will immediately put aside all their busy work and take care of us overnight. When our parents are sick, how much can we do? Is there no filial child in society? Life is not for complaining. As we grow up, our parents gradually get old, and eventually leave us. If we can’t even tolerate our parents, how can we tolerate the world? ‘Doing good starts with filial piety.’ From now on, don’t complain about your parents. ……
