Middle-Aged Women's WeChat Moments: So Heartbreaking...
Since then, one by one, middle-aged men have disappeared from WeChat Moments, and countless middle-aged women cry silently in Moments.
Especially middle-aged women over forty, they have suffered a lot of malice, almost everyone has been spared: "Body shape fat", "Like a grandma", "Face is collapsed"... From appearance, figure to connotation, they have to accept everyone's pointing and scolding, and even be despised, and accidentally be eliminated.
Now, one by one middle-aged men have disappeared from WeChat Moments, and countless middle-aged women cry silently in Moments.
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Don't you have such an experience?
Lying in bed sleepless, the husband snores loudly, opening WeChat, there are thousands of friends but no one to talk to.
After getting married, contact with classmates and friends gradually cut off, lost their social circle, mostly at home taking care of children and husband, taking on the responsibility of taking care of the family.
My good friend Auntie Lian is a typical representative.
When she first met, she really liked to post updates, showing love, taking selfies, and writing emotional texts. Life was happy and fulfilling, and WeChat Moments were lively and colorful.
But after giving birth to a child, she gradually faded out of sight.
She was always around her children and husband, husband and wife communicated less and less, grievances were suppressed and hidden, and no one spoke them out.
She said, when she was alone, she also wanted to ask her old classmates how they were doing, but when she opened her husband's WeChat Moments, the cold line stopped her from saying anything.
Middle-aged women's world is so, thousands of friends, but no one can talk to, and also true, also painful.
As Zhang Ailing said:
"People over the age of fifty often feel lonely because when they open their eyes, there are all people who depend on them, but no one they can rely on."
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Not long ago, a long-time friend suddenly became active in the classmate group, diligently recommending various beauty products, and WeChat Moments were full of treasures.
At first, everyone was still interested, and many people even received a set of trial products, but after a long time, the situation changed.
She began to ask everyone to forward various products to their own WeChat Moments, and also wrote some half-true and half-false testimonials to attract more people to buy.
It turned out that she had designed this 'trap' herself.
Middle-aged women's WeChat Moments have become another marketplace, and everyone has become a fake actor, pretending to be fake and pretentious.
When a leader shared an article, everyone rushed to like it, no matter how good or bad the content was, and when a female friend shared a photo of her family, everyone commented 'so happy' and 'so envious', but their inner feelings were different.
When they saw their husbands liking the circle of a female colleague, they couldn't help but want to know the details.
Yes, they have become hypocritical, sensitive, and different.
Middle-aged women are really painful, they want to have a successful career, a husband who is loyal, and children who are obedient, and they yearn for happiness.
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It's often said that women become middle-aged, it's like tofu slag.
But when you look at those middle-aged women's WeChat Moments, there are always surprises:
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Every morning, my WeChat Moments see Auntie Lan post a beautiful breakfast update.
During the day, she works, and after getting off work, she takes her children to interest classes, and she makes time to exercise at the gym. On weekends, she takes her children out to play.
Looking at her recent selfie, her makeup is exquisite, and her figure is slender, it's not like a woman over forty.
Years ago, she was trapped in the panic of being betrayed by her husband, and she was decadent and depressed, eating and drinking wildly. Later, she resolutely chose to divorce.
It is known that in this era, women are betting on time, energy, and vision.
My circle of friends where many active middle-aged women used to say: "The world is your own, and there is no relationship with others."
Don't be arrogant, don't be fake; don't give up, don't give up. Believe that people who live with heart will eventually be appreciated by this world.
I wish those who are still active in WeChat Moments, and every middle-aged person, can be well.
