Three Types of Friends Determine Three Different Lives: Which Will You Choose?

Written by/Gucai Grass

Once upon a time, Jia Peiyue said this passage:A friend's circle is actually your life, and your struggle for the sake of the name is the friend's good and evil history. Your (we media circle) represents your aesthetic and living level, and those who don't want to jump out of the (we media circle) of comfort, your life will widen the gap with others in comfort and with others.

Indeed, the kind of friends you have will determine what kind of life you live. There is a saying in Chinese: 'Birds of a feather flock together.' It makes sense.

If you spend time with a pessimistic person, life will be dark and gloomy.

Mencius said: Those who belittle themselves cannot have a conversation with others; those who abandon themselves cannot be made to do anything.Simply put, if you hang out with a pessimistic person, don't expect to get any inspiration or development. Life always wants to move forward, and people always want to achieve something. But if you hang out with a pessimistic person, you will never move forward, and you may even regress.

Xiao Xu had such a friend. After a period of time, he decisively broke up with this friend. Afterwards, he no longer contacted him.

Originally, Xiao Xu's friend was called A Yi. He was inherently pessimistic and liked to think of things negatively. For example, Xiao Xu wanted to work while studying for his master's degree, and A Yi said:

You are already working so well, why study for a master's degree? When you finish your master's degree, you may not be able to find such a good job.Xiao Xu started to think that A Yi had a point. But soon after, Xiao Xu had the opportunity to go to the provincial capital for further study, and A Yi said:”

Far away from home, and still two years away, what's the use? When you come back from further study, this position may not be yours!Xiao Xu felt that A Yi wasn't a good friend. A true friend will be happy for your ambition, not to beat you down.”

Xiao Xu said to another friend: That friend only said one sentence:

A Yi far, then go far.

If you spend time with a wise person, life can lead to greater success.

Some people say optimism is like a ray of sunshine in a dark sky, allowing you to see hope.

Others say that an optimist sees a hope in a disaster, while a pessimist sees a disaster in a hope.

I particularly admire what Darwin said:Optimism is the beacon of hope, it guides you from the dangerous gorge to the open road, allowing you to get new life and new hope, supporting your ideals from being extinguished.

We also use Xiao Xu's friend Xiao Feng as an example. Xiao Xu's friend Xiao Feng always went to Xiao Feng for help when Xiao Xu encountered difficulties. No matter how big the matter was, Xiao Feng would comfort Xiao Xu: 'It's okay, the sky will fall, and tall people will protect you, you won't be hit!'

For example, when Xiao Xu went to further study, Xiao Feng always thought Xiao Xu should go. Xiao Feng said: 'Men should be ambitious and go all over the world. If you come back from further study and have better knowledge and education, you can get more important appointments. It's dangerous to be complacent.'Because the younger generation will surpass the older generation.

Xiao Feng said so, and Xiao Xu felt that it made more sense. So, he eventually went to the provincial capital for further study. Afterwards, he was promoted and got the leader's favor.

So, what kind of friends you have will determine your different life paths.

If you spend time with a wise person, life can lead to greater success.

There are intelligent people, and there are dull people. There is also a kind of person who belongs to wise people. If you can make friends with this kind of person, it is a blessing in life.

Throughout history, many people who succeeded because they knew wise friends are not a few.For example, ancient General Lu Bu and, ancient Chen Chong and, and ancient and .

Because of the wise friends by your side, people can gain better spiritual nourishment and lead to greater success.

Just like Xiao Xu's friend Xiao Feng, Xiao Feng was actually a wise person. In the face of life and the world, those who can analyze the direction of life and establish correct goals are wise people.

So, the more you get close to the kind of friend you have, the greater the influence on you. Therefore, in life, what kind of friends you have is very important!