Parents often say these three things to children, and children will be very happy. Have you said that too?
Lucky people heal their childhood in their youth, and unlucky people spend a lifetime healing it. Some people's childhoods were filled with the arguments of their parents, while others were filled with the love of their parents. Some children's childhoods were filled with the pressure given by their parents. What kind of childhood did you have?
Children's childhood is the most important time for parents. If parents often say these three things to children in their childhood, children may not necessarily be very successful, but they will definitely live happily.
01No matter how you are, mom and dad will always love you
If you don't listen to your parents, Mom won't love you!
If you don't listen to your parents, Dad won't buy you toys!
Many adults like to use adult standards to demand children, expecting them to meet our requirements. If children don't do well, parents use these words to threaten children.
If Edison's mother had done this, there might not have been more than 2000 inventions in the world.
No matter what you become, Mom and Dad will love you. No matter whether you are outstanding or not. If parents often say this to children, a child's heart is surely filled with love and security. Only a person with love and security can in turn love others, warm others, and feel the love from others. And a person without security and love cannot feel the warmth of the world.
02We support your choices
Throughout life, we will always face many choices. I was moved to tears when I saw a sentence: The road you choose, you must walk it even on your knees. I chose a very difficult road after graduation, I stayed in a foreign city, and my mother said, 'You will be very tired.' I said, 'I don't fear it.' Later, buying a house, renovating, and getting married, I realized how difficult it was. Many times I really wanted to give up. Therefore, when children make choices, parents should not discourage children, but tell children that no matter what choice you make, we will support you. When you can't support it, parents will always be your backing.
03I hope you be yourself
I hope you get a good grade.
I hope you are better than the neighbor's children.
But we have never asked the child's inner thoughts.
Later I realized the lines from Forrest Gump, 'Gump, when you grow up, what do you want to become?' Gump said, 'Can't I be myself?' Maybe we should really reflect, we shouldn't use other people's standards to demand ourselves, let alone use our standards to demand children. It's happiness that matters most for children to live happily.' A girl worked as an interpreter, with a high salary, often worked for six months and then took time to travel. Her parents always urged her to find a boyfriend, as if she didn't have a relationship, she would live miserably. Later the host said, 'Do you want her to be happy or to marry? Your daughter isn't unhappy because she doesn't have a boyfriend, she just hasn't met the right person. If she marries anyone, she'll live miserably. You're even more worried!' No matter when, tell children, you can be yourself, we hope you can be yourself.
Have you said these three sentences?
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