Your sense of security doesn't come from a man's empty words and promises.
Stop singing about a lifetime of romance, girls shouldn't just rely on making money, they shouldn't be stingy with their beauty, 'a lifetime of romance' – cooking is for you, laundry is for you, housework is for you, you'll be dismissed, the children will always come to you.
People have four opportunities to change their destiny in a lifetime. One is born with a golden key; one is to go to a good school and find a good job; one is through marriage to change. If you don't have these three opportunities, then you have one last chance – to rely on yourself.
Sometimes, you suddenly want to escape from the current life, to pack your simple belongings without considering anything and go wandering.
Sometimes, someone suddenly says to you, 'I feel like you've changed,' and you start to be full of emotions.
Sometimes, you wish time would stop for you, to do the things you haven't had the chance to do.
Sometimes, you want to hide alone and be vulnerable, unwilling for others to see your wounds.
Sometimes, you suddenly want to cry, but you can't cry, the sadness is unbearable.
Your sense of security should come from your skin getting better and better, the numbers decreasing on the scale, more money in your bank account, and your phone always fully charged, not from a man's empty words and promises.
When you're thin and beautiful, and your wallet is full of money you've earned through your own efforts, you'll suddenly realize, 'Why waste time worrying and guessing?', 'Why waste time pondering others' thoughts?' If you bloom, butterflies will come naturally, and if you're brilliant, heaven will arrange it for you.
Life always leaves us with scars, but please believe, the pain you suffer today, the losses you've incurred, the responsibilities you've carried, and the pain you've endured will eventually turn into light, illuminating your path.
Every strong person has gone through a period when no one helped, no one supported them, and no one offered them warmth. The past is gone, it's your adulthood, give up asking for mercy, it's your bottomless pit.
Youth is so short, so confusing. If you can't give yourself a dazzling diploma, a moving love story, then you can give yourself a dream that most people will laugh at – because one day, it will make you shine.
When you succeed, everything you say will be right. Because everyone sees your glory on stage, the halo above your head! When you don't succeed, how can you explain it? Because people believe what they see is the truth! So keep working hard, don't waste time explaining yourself.
