Be Stronger, More Self-Aware, Less Self-Pity...

Self-delusion is a lack of self-awareness, self-righteousness, and an overestimation of oneself, leading to self-harm.

When your enthusiasm isn't reciprocated, you should know when to stop. Losing feelings easily is unnecessary. Stop pursuing when it's pointless.

Don't be self-indulgent, don't pander to indifference, when others don't want to pay attention to you, don't be self-indulgent and cling to them. Instead, be self-aware and walk away.

People are most afraid of self-delusion. You might not be that important to anyone.

You're always thinking about him, maybe he doesn't remember you.

You're always willing to give him, and he doesn't need your interference.

You're constantly self-indulgent, estimating your position in others' hearts. You simply don't have that position.

Don't overestimate your position in others' eyes, nor underestimate yourself. Too much self-doubt leads to a loss of self. A little self-awareness is better than overestimating yourself and looking down on yourself.

In life, when others look down on you, you must look down on yourself. When others look up to you, you must be modest. Self-awareness is key.

Many times, you simply aren't that important. Someone else can replace you easily. Self-delusion leads to embarrassment for you and disgust for others.

Less self-delusion, don't waste your enthusiasm, don't pander to indifference.

Historically, excessive emotion is always exploited. Therefore, when dealing with people, it's better to be less self-indulgent, so you won't be hurt so badly.

Don't pander to indifference or scorn, because a warm face won't stick to a cold butt. Don't waste enthusiasm, because enthusiasm is fragile in the face of indifference.

When dealing with people, don't make it a matter of making it and making it, because the torment is not caused by the other person, but by your self-indulgence. Reality may be cruel, but it's better than constantly torturing yourself.

In love, you can willingly give, but you must also know when to stop and cut losses. Avoid those who don't love you, and keep moving forward. You'll eventually meet someone who loves you wholeheartedly.

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Author: yl,

A passionate lover of life.

Thank you for being with me…

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