It's really important who you're with.

Be kind, be patient, be understanding.

Who are you?

Who do you have around you?

These two questions will determine your life.

Being with different people will lead to different lives.

Being with different people will certainly affect your growth and shape your personality.

Scientists say: ‘Humans are the only animals that can be influenced.’

So, being with diligent people won’t make you lazy; being with positive people won’t make you depressed. Traveling with sages will make you extraordinary; being with high people will enable you to reach the peak.

Being with reliable people

How to judge whether a person is reliable?

Generally, there are 9 characteristics: trustworthiness, punctuality, willingness to admit mistakes, not gossiping behind people's backs, having consideration for others, not boasting, sincerity, not taking advantage, and having certain ability.

InRecords of the Later Han Dynasty, there is a story:

Fan Shi was a classmate of Zhang Zhao at the School of Law in his youth. They both returned from studying together after graduating from the school. They agreed to meet at Zhang Zhao’s house after two years.

The date was approaching, and Zhang Zhao told his mother, asking her to prepare wine and food to entertain Fan Shi.

Zhang Zhao’s mother said: ‘It’s been separated for two years, and the distance is thousands of miles. How can you be so confident that you will keep your promise?’

Zhang Zhao replied: ‘Fan Shi is a reliable and trustworthy person, he will definitely not break his promise.’

Zhang Zhao’s mother said: ‘If that’s the case, we should prepare wine and food.’

The agreed-upon date arrived, and Fan Shi came as promised, after visiting Zhang Zhao’s mother, he continued to drink heartily before leaving.

As the saying goes: ‘A stone table is a pit on the ground. Being with reliable people is like an unshakable mountain, no matter when you mention it, your heart is full of stability.’

In this world, smart people are rare, and reliable people are even rarer. Being with reliable people is your greatest blessing.

Let’s wish that we all know the true and positive significance of diligence and reliability, and we firmly believe that in the near future, the feeling of diligence and reliability emanating from our hearts will not be disappointed by time and wise people.

Being with positive people

Being with positive people, you can always feel positive energy, like being surrounded by the sun.

Positive people are like the sun, wherever they go, they shine; negative people are like the moon, different in the first fifteen days.

Some say that there are three great lucks in life: meeting a good teacher in school, meeting a good master at work, and meeting a good companion at home.

Sometimes, a sweet smile or a warm greeting can make your life different and brilliant.

One father scolded his son, who was jumping around on the sofa after receiving a criticism from the boss, and the child kicked the cat playing around at home in anger. The cat ran to the street and was hit by a truck, and the driver quickly avoided it, causing the boss’s shop to be damaged.

This is the ‘cat kicking effect’ caused by negative energy spreading through influence.

As someone says: ‘Most people enter the tomb with unplayed music.’

Originally, you are outstanding, but because of those negative people, you lack upward pressure, lose momentum, and become mediocre, without brilliance.

The saddest thing in life is that because there are no positive and ambitious people around you, and there are no visionary people, your life becomes mediocre and faded.

Being with negative people slowly withers your heart, and you are full of distractions; being with positive people will make you love life and discover the beauty of life.

Being with loved ones

Being with loved ones, it’s like gaining strength, with light in your eyes, and full of honesty.

The best encounters are after a long separation, I don’t regret not meeting you at your best time, because after meeting you, your best time is just beginning.

In the United States, a 93-year-old grandfather goes to the same restaurant every noon.

After a long time, everyone knows him, curiously asking: ‘Who are the photos on your table?’

It turned out that the beautiful lady in the photos was his wife who passed away four years ago, and this restaurant was his wife’s favorite restaurant.

The old grandfather deeply loved his wife, and they had been married for 56 years without separation. After his wife’s death, he still carried photos with him, constantly kissing the cold tombstone and expressing his love and longing.

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Heart said: ‘With love, there is everything.’

Just like her and her husband Wu Wen-chou supported each other through difficulties for 56 years. Because of love, they always supported each other, never separated, and ended their lives.

The prosperity of life, wandering through the years, having someone accompany you, the colors of the heavens and the earth, the rise and fall of mountains and rivers, are all thus vividly portrayed.

May we have time to look back, and may we share our love and whiteheads.

There is a saying that goes: ‘People tend to gather around those who share similar qualities, and people tend to associate with those who share similar qualities.’

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