A man realizes the importance of family too late, and the consequences are dire.
New Veil
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Follow me, your heart matters, tell me
01.
As the saying goes: Forty has no confusion.
Many young people, when they are young, don't understand, don't know what they want, what they pursue. Once they reach middle age, after experiencing many things, they suddenly understand. In the world, in the end, family is the most important.
It’s all about family. All your efforts and struggles are for your family and children.
Therefore, after middle age, you should also understand the meaning of family. Some things that don't belong to you shouldn't be forced. Some things that shouldn't be wasted time, shouldn't be wasted.
For men, after middle age, don’t do such ‘things’, it’s not good for you and your family.
Jiang Ming (pseudonym) was from a poor background when he was young, he suffered a lot, until he was 30, he hadn’t had a girlfriend. Later, he met his wife by introducing his acquaintances.
Jiang Ming’s wife, Liang Feng (pseudonym), is introverted and doesn't like to speak her mind. Even if she has grievances, she keeps them to herself.
At first, their marriage was good, even sweet, but after their child was born, Liang Feng shifted her focus to her son, and her attention to Jiang Ming decreased. Coupled with Liang Feng's quietness, the two had few common topics.The biggest problem in marriage is lack of communication. Bed and dreams are separate.
Jiang Ming hadn't gotten a wife when he got married, and Liang Feng was a quiet gourd. Her dating range was small, and she was already over 40 before she got married, so she married by chance, and after getting married, she earned some money, so she thought of making up for her youthful regrets.
It's said that people become bad when they are not content. Jiang Ming became a high-level manager in the company, so he had money and power, which naturally attracted many young women.
A young woman who just graduated from college came to the company, she was an intern in Jiang Ming’s department, and her contact opportunities were frequent.
The woman was a literary cadre in the campus, she was beautiful and talented, and was very popular. Jiang Ming saw her and remembered that he had once secretly liked a girl in school, but because of his poor family conditions, he was self-conscious and didn’t dare to confess. He saw his favorite girl being chased by another boy, and he was very disappointed. Now, there is a young and lively girl in front of him, and Jiang Ming immediately paid attention to her.
Jiang Ming treated the girl as a teacher, and later, they learned from each other, and they became lovers from ordinary colleagues.
To avoid gossip, the girl quit her job by herself, and Jiang Ming supported her. She lived a life of ease and abundance.
The world has no leaks, Jiang Ming’s infidelity was discovered by Liang Feng. Although Liang Feng was taciturn, she wasn’t powerless.
People who don’t speak much will have a hard heart, and they won’t compromise.
03.
Liang Feng left a divorce agreement and directly returned to her mother’s house, and she wouldn’t be involved with him anymore.
Jiang Ming didn’t want to divorce, but he didn’t want to give in. But the girl kept pressing him to divorce and marry her.
Jiang Ming was in a trough at work, and he returned home to find that his wife and children were gone, and he suddenly realized that he had been striving for this all along, wasn’t it for a good life, for a family to enjoy a harmonious life in old age?
But now, he had lost his family.
Thinking about this, Jiang Ming regretted it deeply, blaming himself for being blinded by his desires.
Just when Jiang Ming felt lonely and helpless, his wife, Liang Feng, came to him and gave him a hot soup, Jiang Ming thought that his wife had forgiven him, but Liang Feng said:
When did you sign the divorce agreement? Let's quickly divide the property, and the children’s upbringing depends on money.
The most important thing is that people who don’t speak much will have a hard heart, and they won’t compromise.
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