The Real Reason You're Unhappy: It's Not Just About Accepting the Status Quo, But Also a Lack of Ability to Change It
Some say that as people age, they become less aware of what truly makes them happy.
Happiness is actually a state – a state of the body, a state of mind, and a state of life.
The best state for a person is to have something to do, to be loved, and to have something to look forward to.
Many people's so-called troubles are not because their lives are bad, but because they have nothing to do.
Having nothing to do leads to a lack of direction and opportunities, which in turn leads to indecision and speculation.
To enrich your life, you should make an effort to exercise and maintain your health, and to achieve self-realization through your work.
You can strive to earn money and use it to pursue your dreams.
A busy life itself is a good remedy for worries.
Before falling in love, you may want to wander alone, to see the colorful world.
But after falling in love, you might find the world too distant and want to stay home, to wash his clothes and cook for him, to sleep with him.
A person should live independently and be self-reliant, but love and being loved are equally important.
Because someone loves you, your happiness and sadness become meaningful.
Because someone loves you, you have a second life – one in this world, and one in someone else's heart.
Having something to look forward to is the reason we choose to believe.
You don't know what wonderful things the future holds, so every day should be worth looking forward to.
As Toru Watanabe said: 'As long as there's a future in your heart, a person can become happy.'
I hope you can always maintain your best state, have something to do, have someone to love, and have something to look forward to.
Because that is the appearance of happiness.
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