The Journey of Life is Like This: Spending a Lot of Time Wandering, Growing in Moments of Insight
Ricards
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Actually, living alone is quite lonely, just like when you can't sleep, the whole room is just you alone, empty and no one to talk to. The emptiness of one's inner self is magnified, as if standing outside of life. If there were a cat or dog, it would be better.
To be honest, life is difficult. Everyone has a lot of thoughts, some can be shared with loved ones, and some can't be told to outsiders. These thoughts are buried deep in the heart, they don't appear in front of people, only when one is alone with one's inner self will they appear, occupying the entire existence.
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Remember that one episode of 'Variety Showdown' where Ma Dong said: 'As time goes by, we will eventually forgive those who once hurt us.'
said: 'That's not forgiveness, that's letting it go.'
Impressed
These days, I was idle at home and watched TV with my grandmother in the living room at night. She didn't watch much TV, usually old TV dramas, watching them over and over again, such as 'The Spring of Cotton Blossoms' and 'The Bride with Wooden Shoes' and 'The Mother After Spring'. The more tragic and bloody the plot was, the more she liked it. I wondered if she wouldn't feel empathetic because the characters were so pitiful. She shook her head and said they had experienced things far more difficult than what was shown in the TV dramas.
It turns out that life is the most dog blooded.
No matter how difficult the overall situation is, if people have experienced insults and hardships, they are endless. Grandpa was the youngest in the family, though he was favored, he was timid. Grandma had two daughters before she gave birth to my dad. The idea of preferring sons to daughters made her live in the family with difficulty. The scheming and sarcasm between the stepmothers was of course not to mention, and the overbearing mother-in-law constantly harassed her. Once she was talking, Grandma's mother-in-law suddenly fell to the ground and shouted that Grandma was beating her, attracting the attention of everyone in the family, and nearly beat Grandma to death. If it hadn't been for Grandma's warm and gentle words, I'm afraid it would have been difficult to imagine such a dog blooded plot in reality.
Later, when time passed, the villains disappeared, and the old people died. Grandma was healthy and happy, and her relationship with her brothers and sisters gradually improved. Whenever they had birthdays, Grandma would go to visit them. I didn't deserve her. Just about to say that I should stop arguing with them and let them die with their old age, but when I looked at Grandma's kind and peaceful face, I couldn't say anything.
Forget it, let it go, let it go.
Growth
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If you think too much, you'll get more and more thoughts, and it's easy to get stuck in a dead end.
But people always grow up, and life always continues.
So we always need to maintain the ability to be satisfied with the trivialities of life.
To reconcile with oneself, don't be afraid of achievements, and don't resist the inner and outer changes, the changes in vision and perspective, the changes in values.
Also reconcile with the world. The world is full of chaos and disasters. These are not special, but normal.
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