Don't Give Your Kindness to the Wrong People

Think, cultivate your mind, and then you can make up for your shortcomings,Hello everyone, I'm Grandma Guo, follow me to deal with those petty young things~,Frequently, people ask themselves,I am so kind and understand so many principles, why does my life never let me go?If you're used to being wronged, used to being silent, used to sacrificing yourself, used to refusing everyone, you'll forget you can have a confident attitude, have your own perspective, have your own capabilities, and have a life of your own,We were always taught by our elders and society: 'Be obedient, be sensible, be good, or you won't be a good child.' How many people were cursed by this, living cautiously and nervously, afraid of making a 'mistake, not sensible, not a good child',It's said that suffering is a blessing, good people get good rewards, you have to endure hardship to be a great person…We've grown up hearing our elders and society promote positive energy: we understand human relationships, we respect the elderly and love children, we endure hardship, we help the elderly cross the road, we give up our seats on buses, we donate to street beggars we see, we take home stray cats and dogs to care for them—even though I'm so kind and sensible, my life still doesn't let me go?At work, I accommodate my colleagues, always yield, I do the hardest and dirtiest jobs to earn praise, I work diligently to let others benefit, but in the end, I'm still outdone by those who use flattery to please their superiors,In life, I care for my friends because my elders say: 'Rely on friends in the outside world.' I value everyone I meet, and I'm often friendly, but in the end, I expect a revolutionary friendship, but I'm alienated because of some minor grievances,I thought if I considered your feelings, you would respond and take care of my mood;I thought if I did good for you, you would do good for me;I thought that even if life is unfair, if I work hard and smile, my life would get a little better, but it was all my misunderstanding,You complain to the world: 'This world is sick, good people don't always get good rewards,' but when you offer a kind heart, it's trampled underfoot; you do good without seeking anything in return, but you're still regarded as an enemy, being talented is shameful, sincere love is a puppy, things have changed, and people have changed,Life always lets those who are more sensible bear all the bad results and feelings,The more sensible you are, the more others think you can accept everything, forgetting that you're also someone who can be sad and hurt, the stronger and braver you are, the more others think you're invincible, forgetting that you also yearn to be loved, a person who is too sensible is often tired and unhappy,It's really not necessary: true sensibility isn't about excessive flattery, it's not about suppressing yourself to cater to others. Kindness is not wrong, but giving it to the wrong person is a mistake. Sometimes, you should just be a little less sensible, be a little selfish, and be a little more real—it's your first time in the world, why should you always yield?

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