30 Insightful Reflections on Life
1. Initially, it's about pretending to be strong, and then actually becoming strong.
2. Complaints that can be said are not complaints; lovers that can be reclaimed are not lovers.
3. Scenery that has passed should not be inquired about; when you choose a road, the scenery of the other road is irrelevant to you.
4. If the shoes don’t fit, take them off; if the person doesn’t fit, let go; don’t lower yourself for anyone you want to keep. After all, there will always be someone to stay up late with you, pick you up in the rain, say ‘I love you’, and there are always backup plans.
5. Many things, knowing they’re not practical, are still bought; some people, knowing the result is unlikely, still fall in love. Don’t go back on your word, don’t be indiscriminate, toast to the past, and never return after loving.
6. When ideological differences are serious, it’s really difficult to make friends, because of different thoughts, experiences, and senses.
7. Good temper comes from perseverance; bad habits come from indulgence; causing trouble comes from being frivolous.
8. Moods are like clothes; if they’re dirty, wash them; let the sun dry them – the sunlight will naturally spread out.
9. Don’t be too eager, don’t indulge too early, don’t fall in love too deeply, don’t stay up too late, don’t eat too much, don’t be too nice to people, and don’t believe too much.
10. Most of the time, what drains your energy isn’t work, but the people you encounter in work.
11. Now I understand, a person can be so sad that they have no emotion, no words, and no expressions.
12. Not everyone is suitable for spending a lifetime with you. Some are for growing up, some are for living together, and some are for remembering for a lifetime.
13. When you were a child, you used your pillow to sleep on with saliva; when you grew up, you used your pillow to cry on; childhood smiles were a state of mind, and smiles grew up were expressions.
14. You waste today, which is the tomorrow that the person who died yesterday hoped for; you hate the present, which is the past that the future you cannot return to. Time is cruel, cherish the people in front of you.
15. There will always be unexpected warmth in life; there will also be the entanglement of people in a position. The best state is not to fear the future or regret the past…
16. You’re afraid of what will happen, but it will happen as expected and will eventually leave as expected.
17. You waste today, which is the tomorrow that the person who died yesterday hoped for; you hate the present, which is the past that the future you cannot return to!
18. You used to like people with good looks, now you like people with stable relationships. The more you meet people, the more you know what you really want to be around.
19. Life has no debts; others give you, because they like you; you give others, because you willingly do so. Love comes from willing, and things pass without regret.
20. Funny souls will eventually meet; boring souls will drift apart; beauty may be late, but it will never disappear permanently.
21. Life after growing up is like this: it doesn’t let you be overly happy, and it doesn’t let you be completely disappointed.
22. At this age, no one wants to please others; whoever you’re comfortable with, including friends, stay with them – if you’re tired, move away. Better to be lonely, rather than compromised, better to regret than to settle.
23. Many things were foreseen from the beginning; all the subsequent messing around is just to delay the breakup.
24. When you were a child, you couldn’t understand what the purpose of the festival was; when you grew up, you realized that festivals are for making happy people happier and lonely people lonelier.
25. Life is a continuous process of subtraction: the wallet is getting emptier, the hair is getting thinner, and the people you like are disappearing.
26. People, when they reach a certain age, always carry some regrets and difficult-to-say pain, and live happily with a smile.
