High-Rated Zhihu: The Hidden Rules of Interpersonal Relationships
Spent the past year making my own money, and encountered many different people and situations.
I also saw a lot of messy and dramatic storylines when I was in the big company before.
I'm writing down my latest understandings about interpersonal relationships here......
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The essence of interpersonal communication is exchange. If you can't provide value to others, your relationship will be difficult to sustain.
As mentioned in 'Big Dog', the typical characteristic of wealthy people is that they will show gratitude to others.
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When you come out, no one has to help you. Helping you is a matter of courtesy, not helping you is a matter of obligation.
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Learn to praise others, especially to compliment them on details. For example, I see you are very willing to help others, such as before and after this entrepreneur training, you have been arranging it all.
Also, you can compliment your girlfriend: 'I really like your new hairstyle.'
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Being rejected is a good thing. Because after being rejected, you can objectively evaluate your abilities. Only by becoming stronger can you attract better cooperation.
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If you don't have any ability, don't think about integrating resources, because why shouldn't others do it themselves?
I've seen too many so-called integrated resources, but ultimately nothing comes of it.
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Don't be afraid of being used by others, but don't use others. You can be used by others, which means you have value. Don't treat your friends as resources, because no one wants to be used.
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The power of reputation.
The top circles in any field are very small, and your reputation, whether good or bad, will be quickly known by people in the entire industry.
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