Author: One Shu
Source: A Book in a Week (ID: yer808)
Silence is the deadliest revenge.As the saying goes, real people don't show their faces, revealing faces are not real. This refers to masters who generally don't show off their skills, and understand ().Yes, it is.A blatant display of talent is not necessarily a good thing. Speaking prudently and acting cautiously is the best way to live.I really like this passage: Your face is serene and calm, no one knows how tightly your teeth bite,You walk with the wind, no one knows if your knees still have scars from being injured,You smile without sincerity, no one knows you cry silently with tears that don't fall,To make people feel effortless, you must put in extremely hard work behind the scenes.People, either vulgar or lonely!
Along the way, rumors and slander, setbacks and mockery, the inner turmoil gradually learned not to show off. Sometimes, silence is not weakness, not an apology, it is the unwillingness to let a carelessly spoken word become a weapon for others to harm you.You may be good, but there will always be people who say three things and four things. Since it's impossible to make everyone like you, just focus on doing what you do best, and be at ease with your conscience.When others praise you, silence is a virtuous example of humility, a slight smile is a worthy return. It's important to have self-awareness;When others despise you, silence is a silent counterattack, without any words, your composure can make others feel ashamed, When others achieve success, silence is a blessing hidden in your heart, not fiery but sincere,When others fail to achieve their goals, silence is a boost, don't add fuel to the fire with cheers and applause, it's not a burden for others to bear…It's okay for people who can speak well to have their charm. But the saying 'words are silver, silence is gold' is also true. Silence is not weakness, but wisdom. Silence is the best explanation.In the past, there was a temple known for a string of Buddhist beads worn by the Buddha. Therefore, people flocked to pay their respects,But the place where the beads were displayed was only known to the temple's head monk and his 7 disciples.The 7 disciples were all very studious, and the head monk felt that he was getting old and wanted to pass on his dharma to one of them, to promote Buddhism. But he didn't want to be a day when the beads disappeared, so he called the disciples to the backyard and asked, 'Whoever took the beads, as long as they put them back, I won't pursue them, the Buddha will not blame them.' The disciples looked at each other in confusion and shook their heads.Seven days passed, and the beads were still missing. The head monk said, 'Forget it, forget it. Whoever admits it, that's his.'But seven days later, no one admitted it.The head monk smiled, took out the 'lost' beads and put them on this disciple,It's not always necessary to explain everything. Those who are clear-minded don't need to explain, and those who don't understand don't need to explain repeatedly. Water deep doesn't speak, people steady don't speakSilence is facing rumors and slander with a serene expression, it's facing deception and trickery with composure, it's facing right and wrong with impartiality,Silence is a test, and it is also a cultivation.
Many times, we are eager to express ourselves, just to let it out, ignoring whether others want to listen, whether the words hit the pain points,It often ends a relationship, then the lesson is 'words are silver, silence is gold'. In the trough of life, don't bother anyone. Be a silent mute, take it step by step, and you will get what you want in the end.Life is like this, endure loneliness, you can keep prosperity, excellent people will experience a period of silence,Those who tell stories later will also be moved by themselves. The saying 'words are silver, silence is gold' is true. In the past, Stone Mountain asked Shi De: 'There are people who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, look down on me, demean me, deceive me, harm me, cheat me. How should I handle it?' Shi De said, 'Just endure them, let them go, don't care, don't look at them, be patient with them, wait another few years, and then you'll see how they are.' The principles of using others' methods to treat others' problems are as useless as wasting your life on meaningless things.After going through half a life, you begin to understand what belongs to you, and what is essential to you;Those irrelevant trivialities and incidents have all become ripples on the calm surface of your life. Eventually, they will return to tranquility.When you're at your lowest, don't bother anyone. Be a silent mute, take it step by step, and you will get what you want in the end.Life is like this, endure loneliness, you can keep prosperity, excellent people will experience a period of silence,Those who tell stories later will also be moved by themselves. The saying 'words are silver, silence is gold' is true.
