Final Moments of Life: Children's Disappearance, Harsh Words, and Heartbreaking Grief After Death – Why?
This is perfectly normal and not uncommon. And it's easy to watch from the outside, but difficult to experience it firsthand. As the saying goes, 'It's easy to watch the fire, but difficult to feel the heat.'
Generally, elderly people in their final years are lucid and confused, suffering from illness and pain, which is unavoidable.
My uncle (the eldest son) was always a good-natured man, but in his last few months lying in bed, he would cry and scream day and night, cursing everyone he saw. His three sons took turns watching him, constantly demanding things, never letting him sleep. He'd want water, then food, but would refuse once he was brought before him. He'd say he needed to go to the bathroom, but would deny it once he tried. …
My brother (the eldest son) told me: 'These thirty-nine days, I shivered so much from the cold, I'd just fallen asleep and I'd be woken up again, I spent many nights like this. How could I work during the day?'
Therefore, in such a situation, arguing a little is inevitable, but you still need to take care of them when needed, and there are very few people who don't bother.
The elderly sister of my clan's aunt, her mother-in-law was 90 years old, sometimes lucid, sometimes confused, she smeared feces on the doors and windows of her bedroom, how could she not be upset and scold her?
Regarding the grief of children after the passing of their elderly parents, most of it is genuine, after all, after decades of family affection, can it not be heartbreaking? 'A son's cry shakes the sky and moves the earth, a daughter's cry grabs the sky and scratches at it' is a true reflection.
As the saying goes, 'It's like the sparks will fall on whose foot depends on whom.' You cannot understand the difficulty when you are not experiencing it firsthand!
Therefore, let's understand!
