Unspoken Rules (Keep Them in Mind)

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In human interaction, everywhere is a matter of skill.
01Make an appointment at least one day in advance.
02Use 'thank you' instead of 'thank you'. (Although it's just one more character, it's much more sincere.)
03When editing photos, don't just edit yourself, help your friends edit too.
04Don't post to before replying to WeChat messages. (Exclude reasonable situations.)
05When three people go out, one person should tie the shoelaces, and the other two should wait for him.
06Don't shake your legs on row seats!
07In KTV, even if you know the song, don't grab the chance to sing or follow along (it's very annoying).
08When others are sleeping, remember the word 'quiet'.
09Be quiet when watching movies. (Don't narrate the movie).
10Make an appointment at least a few days in advance when inviting a girl.
11On the subway, don't stand leaning on the handrail alone, be considerate of others who have nowhere to put their hands.
12In dorms or public places, when watching videos, listening to music, or playing games, please wear headphones!
13Don't think that fat people don't mind so you can keep saying they are fat.
14When showing photos to someone, don't 'swipe' left or right.
15When others are using a computer, don't stare at their computer screen.
16Don't smoke in public places.

17Cover your mouth when coughing or sneezing.
18Don't make noise while eating, drinking, or making strange noises with your mouth.
19Return borrowed money in a timely manner. If you can't return it, at least let the other person know you haven't forgotten.
20Don't complain about people in a circle to people in the same circle.
21At dinner, you can skip the dishes you don't like, but don't show off your disgust, don't make it difficult for the people who love to eat to swallow.
22Others can self-deprecate, but you must not echo.
23Even if you prefer a certain dish at the table, don't always eat only that dish.
24Don't let your loved ones 'lose face' in public.
25When someone is entering a password, step aside or turn your face away.
26When someone is serving food, don't turn your table.
27Don't assume others should help you.
28When queuing, don't shake your ponytail back and forth.
29Don't only grab and not share when sending red envelopes in a group.
30At gatherings, don't always look at your phone.

31When someone sends you a message, you must reply, even if you don't want to chat, you can use emojis or punctuation to express it; not being cold is not 'high cold,' it's impolite.
32Stand on the right side when in an elevator.
33Don't read others' phones without permission.
34Even if you don't like it, you still want others to not refute their likes (breaking someone else's joy is a very impolite thing).
35Breakup first if you don't want to be together, don't look for a new lover to break up with!
Therefore, in human interaction, everywhere is a matter of skill, and only by learning more can you thrive in this small society!