Some Loves Are Inevitably Painful
Written by: Qing He Shi Yu
Today, let's write about love, and about how we embraced each other under the blooming flowers and bright moonlight back then.
In the fields, the wind rolls up the wheat waves, and in the ponds, a pair of fish swim side by side in the lotus flowers.
Back then, young hearts were completely defenseless, treating everyone who came near as a trusted confidant, and revealing their innermost secrets without reservation, not realizing that this very openness became a weapon against them.
In every youth, in every naive and newly blossoming young man and woman, there will be a secret admirer.
I am no exception.
I know that my affection for him was a one-sided, pure longing.
He's quiet, with a touch of gentleness in his appearance.
This liking had no ulterior motives.
Just seeing him well, even from afar, would bring me warmth and happiness.
I would make small gifts for him, handmade or bought from specialty stores.
But these gifts were tinged with sadness, imagining a day when we might not see each other again, these gifts could serve as a memory, would he recognize me – a simple love, contained in such simplicity.
Everyone has a group of close classmates or friends in their youth.
They grew up in the same neighborhood or village, entered the same school and class together, and would go to school and play together after school, returning home for dinner and then still finding time to chat about their secrets on their beds or in a shared blanket.
Such companions naturally earn complete trust.
But a defenseless heart becomes a target for harm.
Later, I gave him photo albums and notebooks, and even fantasized about creating various excuses to run into him, and we would spend a journey together.
Whenever I was with him, I always felt so happy and sweet.
Later, I kept hearing his name from my friends, and my beautiful youth was shattered into pieces, making me feel utterly foolish in my youth…
Time changes, and people come and go. The vicissitudes of life change the simplicity of the beginning, and some things are gradually forgotten and diluted by the passage of time.
I realized that in this world, you can never be perfect, and you can never be liked by everyone.
People who like you will tolerate all your shortcomings, while those who don't like you will constantly point out your flaws and mistakes in public.
And those fading moments in time make the fleeting figures in your life even more blurry, and time washes away both the pain and the joy.
But a heart still retains its true self, and friends say sharing your secrets with them is the greatest trust, even if it suddenly leads to a falling out, those secrets will not be revealed, so as not to become weapons against each other.
I also realized that the beauty of life lies in respecting love and kindness, and that all affinities are not forced or clung to, but followed naturally, which is the most carefree attitude in life.
In the grand youth, not all love is romantic and beautiful. Some loves are destined to be hurt.
As long as you hold warmth and kindness in your heart and understand and be grateful, happiness will not be far away.
In the mortal world, we are always searching for love.
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