Calm Yourself and Take Three Steps in Life to Reach Almost Your Goals
The knowledge and techniques taught in middle school are often not very useful in real life. Teachers are almost all useless. I know that. But you must remember: you are about to run away. And that means there are almost no chances to go to school. So it's best to absorb all the things taught in class—whether you like them or not—completely. Consider yourself a sponge. As for what to keep and what to discard, it can be decided later.
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This is a passage from's. The protagonist had already planned to run away from home, but he wasn't rash. Before leaving home, he realized that there were almost no opportunities to study in school, so he didn't matter how he did it, he first absorbed all the things taught by the teacher, regardless of whether he liked them or not. As for whether they would be useful later, it could be decided later.
Indeed, the most difficult things to let go of are hearts. Having a well-prepared plan can make the results more successful.So, when doing anything, you must be patient and take steady steps.
Young man had been planning to run away from home a long time ago. In the young mind, step by step, he planned his departure. It seemed like this was a well-organized performance.
The youth's running away from home was once a synonym for 'headstrong'. However, did it very perfectly, without hurry or haste, step by step. However, the result was still good, and his thorough preparation led to a satisfactory outcome.
It's inevitable to recall that many young men and women vent their emotions and run away from home in a hurry, smashing the door frame into pieces. But the final outcome is disheartening and they return without a word.
As people say, true departure is always silent. Whether this matter is right or wrong doesn't matter. It's obvious that's running away from home was done very well.There was no flustered and disorganized appearance, but a methodical start to a new life.
In this world, there is too much anxiety, which is a common phenomenon for most people. They are eager to go to school, eager to get a job, eager to get married, and eager to have children. They are always worried about missing the whole life if they are a step late.
Unknowingly, this is being consumed by anxiety and frustration.
Clearly defining goals is a good thing, but it's even more valuable to calmly look at the distant target like a lighthouse keeper watching the light at night. It's a quality of calmly sailing, which is a rare and precious quality.It can be seen that when writing this book,
's penmanship naturally expressed a preference for this personality, as natural as recording a diary and documenting a day's itinerary.The goal will not become farther, so the only thing to do is to be calm and steady, taking step by step.
Yes, there's nothing to worry about.
It's easy to be calm and steady. Many people, especially themselves, will explain this state as 'calmness', but this is not the case.
When a person firmly believes that he is 'incapable' of doing something, he will use this method to hide his nervousness, and in this way, he can avoid negative emotions.
How to distinguish between avoidance and true calmness? The clarity of the future goal is a clear distinction between the two.
The calm person understands their goal and knows how to achieve it. They are not hasty and show a confident demeanor.The person who avoids it just uses 'calmness' to deceive himself. If asked about their goal and how to achieve it, they will probably be evasive and hesitant, unable to give a clear answer.
The essence of anxiety is fear of one's own incompetence. Therefore, when facing the goal, it's easy to be misled by the distance and feel despair. This is a latent weakness that is unavoidable by humans.
As a non-avoidable weakness, it should be 'eliminated' with appropriate measures. Perhaps a long-term goal can cause confusion and despair. At this time, breaking the goal into smaller parts is a good idea.
Don't worry too much about 'one step at a time', breaking the goal and 'taking one step at a time' are essentially the same thing.
Thinking ahead and then acting, breaking the goal into smaller parts, and stepping by step – this is a vivid portrayal.
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