The Tao Te Ching: All life's grievances and hardships will ultimately manifest as a complete resolution.
The Tao Te Ching: All the grievances and hardships endured in life will manifest in a way of completeness.
In life, the most painful thing is not a lack of material wealth, but the torment caused by human disputes for oneself. For example, the wickedness of the world and the difficulty of measuring human relationships.
When interacting with others, 'human' is always the most difficult character to deal with. It's hard to do good things, because there are people, and there are people, there is a 'jianghu', and there is a 'jianghu', there are disputes, conflicts, and pain, all stemming from this.
When we are in pain from a conflict with others, the biggest problem is not the conflict itself, but our inability to accommodate and tolerate these grievances and hardships.
Human's subconscious has a problem: an excessive rejection of incompleteness.
'The Tao Te Ching' says:Where things are disliked, only solitude, smallness, and lack of security are favored; rulers and ministers esteem these qualities, so things may damage them while gaining from them, or gain from them while damaging them.
People instinctively dislike solitude, smallness, and incompleteness. We always encounter conflicts and disputes in our interactions with others. When we resist these grievances and treat them with emotional resistance, pain arises.
A person's wisdom lies in bearing these pains, accepting and transforming all the imperfections in life's circumstances, even if you encounter small people in your life, you can stand at a higher perspective, accommodate the existence of small people.
'The Tao Te Ching' says: 'Not self-conceited, therefore clear; not self-assertive, therefore admired; not self-praising, therefore gains merit; not self-conceited, therefore longevity. Only by not contending with the world, none can contend with him. ' This means: not relying solely on one's own views, but seeing things clearly; not self-righteous, therefore respected; not boasting, therefore gains merit; not self-conceited, therefore long-lasting. It is because we don't contend with the world, that no one can contend with us. This is the truth of ''.
This means that if you don't rely solely on your own opinions, you can see things clearly; if you are not self-righteous, you will be respected; if you don't boast, you will gain merit; and if you don't have an inflated ego, you will be able to endure.
In Taoist thought, 'the Tao' is the force that nurtures all things, but it doesn't presume to be self-righteous, and it bears all the blessings and misfortunes that come to life. This is a state of emptiness.
Therefore, learn to endure grievances and incompleteness. When you can overcome what you consider 'deep pits of suffering,' you will encounter a very beautiful life.
'Food for Thought' says: 'To climb a mountain, endure the side roads; to cross snow, endure the dangerous bridge.' The word 'endure' is full of meaning, like the dark and treacherous human relationships, the difficult and bumpy world. If you can't pass it with a 'endure' word, almost no one won't fall into a thicket of thorny pits.
Life has no one who hasn't experienced grievances. It's like a person in the mortal world, cannot avoid falling into the 'jianghu'.
When you encounter the chaos of human relationships and the wickedness of human nature, you must believe in one word: 'endure'. Swallow this grievance, explore in the dark, and heaven will not abandon you.
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