What can you rely on when you have no money to maintain family relationships, solidify love, and connect with friendship? (Or, What's the point of relationships without money?)

This time, the hot phrase is: what about family affection, love, and friendship – it's all meaningless without money. This is a painful truth, but a stark reality.

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Why do we need to make money in this life?We need to make money to live. To live a better quality of life, we desperately need to make money. With our eyes open and closed, it's all about money.

We work so hard to earn money, not because we love money! It's simply that, throughout our lives, we don't want to lower ourselves for the sake of money, or let money cause difficulties for anyone.

Money may not be able to do everything, but without money, it's impossible. I just hope that when my parents get old, I can have the ability to share the burden with them; when my children need it, I won't be stingy.

Previously, a popular phrase was 'Without money, how can you maintain your family affection, solidify your love, and connect with your friendship? Can you rely on words?' Reality is indeed like this.

My recently graduated and received her first salary, which she used to buy gifts for her parents. Whatever they needed, she bought it for them, and she often took her parents on trips. Her parents would tell everyone that her daughter was filial and obedient. After her marriage, she treated both sides of her parents equally.

Three years later, my and her boyfriend divorced due to personality conflicts. After the divorce, my raised her 3-year-old son alone, while renting an apartment and paying for her son's schooling, which was a significant expense. Now, she is at her lowest point, and besides giving her parents money during festivals, she doesn't have much money to take them on trips.

My's divorce was a year after, and her parents started to criticize her, often saying that other daughters-in-law bought gifts and went on trips for their parents. The more they said it, the more my realized that she wanted to do the same, but she couldn't afford it temporarily.

If we don't have money, we can't maintain our family affection, and neither can our siblings.

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If we don't have money, our love will gradually drift away from us. As the saying goes, 'Poor couples face many hardships.' Money and love don't have a necessary relationship, but without money, how can we live, how can we not think about love?

Economic foundation determines the superstructure, and love is the superstructure. It needs a lot of material support, and money is the foundation of all material things. Without money, love is short-lived. When we struggle for our livelihoods, romance becomes a luxury.A netizen shared his experience with us:

My family was very poor, and my parents were farmers who toiled with their backs to the earth. There were three of us brothers, and my second brother went to university, and my parents worked hard to pay for my brother's education. After my brother graduated, we were already poor, and I couldn't go to university, only attending vocational school. At that time, I was 16 years old, a very youthful age.
It was at that time that I met Yun. We came from the same village and studied at the same vocational school, which made us very close. Her father was the town mayor of our town. Her family had very good conditions, while I only had 15 yuan per week for living expenses. Yun secretly brought me delicious food from home, and gradually we started dating.
Now, looking back, this relationship might have been a mistake from the beginning. Back then, I didn't understand love, although I didn't feel any attraction to her, she was simply too good to me, making me unable to break up. I often felt that if I didn't do this, it would delay her, but when I saw her, I couldn't say a word. So, I left school to work in Guangzhou. There, I found a job at a nightclub, working as an audio technician. I spent half a year like this. One day, I went home to pick up my things, and suddenly saw Yun.
She didn't know where she got my address, and she carried a lot of packages to find me. At that moment, facing this affectionate girl, what could I say? We lived together. If it weren't for that thing to happen, I think she would be my only one in this life. Her father forced her to marry, and as the town mayor, how could his beloved daughter be with a poor boy like me? He chased her to Guangzhou and locked her up, demanding that she go on a blind date.
Yun argued fiercely with her father and escaped, and then came to Guangzhou to find me. Thinking back on those days, we spent every day in fear. We ran to Wuhan, but her father still found us and forcibly took her back.
After returning to our hometown, she was forced by her father to marry that man with power and influence. In 2000, she got married. We communicated for four years, but the breakup happened in an instant.

This is why more and more women try to earn money,It's to avoid being left by someone because of money, or because of money, it's the same as letting the love relationship drift away, a flower needs watering and fertilizing to grow, and love needs a strong foundation.

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Someone said: 'True friendship doesn't need money to maintain it, it's maintained by your hearts, and the deeper the friendship roots grow, the stronger the friendship becomes.'

They say so, but think about it,If we don't have money, when we participate in our friends' activities, we feel inferior. If our friends suggest going somewhere to play or doing something, we feel embarrassed because we don't have money to participate. And over time, our friends stop inviting us, and our friendship naturally drifts away, so it's better to earn more money.

When people are poor, they don't look up to anyone, let alone people, so it's better to have money to maintain our family affection, solidify our love, and connect with our friendship. What do you think?

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