Three Things a Man Cannot Be: Too Arrogant, Too Timid, Too Overbearing
Original ┃ Wan Hongyun
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It is said that men are top of the world, but 'men' are also 'output in the fields'
Therefore, no matter how high a man's ambitions are, or how broad his chest is, a man must first have a spirit of practical action. If he doesn't have a spirit of practical action, he will inevitably fall into ruin and emptiness.
Men cannot be 'too arrogant'
Some say that men should be 'arrogant' in this way, then they are truly manful.
Men always think that as a man, he should be arrogant and domineering, listening to me at home, to my children and elders, and outside, subordinates and employees, colleagues should also listen to me.
This is really wrong.
Even if you have ten thousand abilities and ten thousand positions, you cannot say such things.
Those truly successful men in the world are all cultivated, they love life, never claim to be dominant or aloof.
As the saying goes, 'Half a bucket of water is unsteady, a full bucket is stable', the more a person shows that they are 'arrogant', the more likely they are to be half a bucket of water, unsteady and without purpose.
Therefore, as a man, you must not be 'too arrogant' . That is, destroying one's own future.
Men cannot be 'too timid'
Some people ask, how can a man be 'too timid' and 'too arrogant' , it's 'too timid'
Of course, 'timid' men cannot be.
Men are the pillar of a family, and a family needs a pillar. If the pillar of the family is like a soft persimmon, then this family will not have development. Naturally, there will be no development.
'Timid' means that a person's heart is suppressed by two people. Once the heart is suppressed, there will be no initiative in life. Without initiative, it's like being controlled by others.
A man cannot be 'too timid' . That is, for family, for oneself, for the team, for society, it is an unprofitable behavior.
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Men cannot be 'too clever'
If a person is too clever, he treats others as fools. Then, is there anyone in the world who wants to be treated like a fool? Naturally, there is none.
If there is, it's only a temporary fool, and eventually others will understand, and he will leave this circle, far away from this clever person.
Therefore, 'Water too clear, there are no fish; people too clever, there are no friends'.
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In fact, there is no fool in the world. If a person is too clever and treats others as fools, this is an over-cleverness. This is also a kind of petty cleverness.
Truly wise people are those who think about others, those who have empathy, considering problems from the perspective of others. Such people, no matter how successful in their careers, have gained the respect and recognition of others. Then, even if there are difficulties or obstacles, others will come forward to help each other. This is true wisdom.
If a man is too clever, the ending is opposite. The road will become narrower and narrower, and eventually lead him to a cliff, and he is still calculating the interests of others. Truly, cleverness is counterproductive, leading to ruin.
Men, if you want a wider future, a more prosperous business, and a broader life, remember three things: not too arrogant, not too timid, and not too clever.
