How Successful People Rise From Ordinary People: The Answer is Unexpected
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You may be dissatisfied with your slightly overweight figure, so you make a decision to sculpt a defined abs, and through months of hard training, you become a queen of defined abs.
You may be dissatisfied with your income, so you constantly explore side businesses, and you actually found the right one through trial and error, and finally become a wealthy entrepreneurial family.
You may be dissatisfied with your temper, so you try to control your emotions, and gradually you have fewer and fewer outbursts, and eventually you become a relatively calm person.
We often say that complacency can ruin a person, because being satisfied with yourself makes it easy for you to be stagnant, and fall into a blind state of self-confidence, thus missing out on the changes in the outside world and the growth you've lost.
Those who are dissatisfied with themselves indicate that they still have a desire to improve, they still have requirements for themselves, they still have expectations and desires for life, this dissatisfaction can stimulate our upward change desires, and thus we will put in persistent action until we achieve our goals.
So, don't spread your dissatisfaction everywhere, put away your complaints and nonsense, and devote all your energy to becoming a better version of yourself. The world is fair, whatever you do, life will reward you.
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There is a friend who was dating a girlfriend for 20 years was dumped by her because he didn't have a car or a house. After the breakup, he decided to work hard and use all his free time to start a side business. After several years, he could buy a 500,000 car and decorate a seven-story building with 250 square meters per floor.
Although the current income has met the basic needs for survival, he didn't stop the pace of progress. A few days ago, he asked me how to make money on self-media, saying that the company had no business after starting, and he wanted to use his spare time to do self-media. Now, a few days ago he answered dozens of questions about it. I believe he will eventually make a breakthrough in the self-media field.
I saw a video on Douyin once, have you ever met a disliked classmate? This author is a North Drift, just started working, his classmates never cook and often argue about money, such as he rarely returns the rent, he proposed that the author should pay all the utilities. The author said nothing, just quietly improve himself, and spent his spare time reading and learning after work. He soon rented a better house and left the environment he hated.
You must have experienced some unhappy things, there are two choices in front of you, one is to complain and complain without results, and the other is to improve yourself and choose people and things you like. Those who face unhappy experiences, either evade, complain or stand up and fight. Some people are discouraged when they are hit, labeling themselves as losers, while others use these experiences as motivation to constantly improve themselves. Different choices determine the fate.
Those uncomfortable and unhappy experiences remind you to be a strong person and make choices when faced with injustice. Those who have been hurt, if they are unwilling to be knocked down, they will fight back; those who are frustrated, they will not give up and constantly strive for perfection.
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How strong a person can become depends entirely on how strongly they want to succeed. Only those with a very strong desire for success can repeatedly endure failures and constantly move forward. Those who don't have a strong desire for success may retreat at the slightest difficulty.
Success is not a smooth road, it will be crowded and full of thorns and ruins. Every step is as dangerous and terrifying as walking on a wire. Without a very strong will and determination, it's impossible to complete the journey. Many people stop halfway because they see that they are close to success, but they give in and retreat.
How many people yearn for that day when they succeed, they want to sit in a luxuriously decorated office, with windowsills and desks bathed in natural light, standing by the window overlooking the dreamlike night view of the city. If success requires countless days and nights of hard work, they would rather play games, watch videos, and chase dramas to get a momentary pleasure. They have no desire for success, just being fascinated by the halo of success, hoping to become a person in the eyes of others, but unwilling to endure the hardships, these people are like beautiful goods in a shop window, they see them but can never own them.
A person's strength depends on their desire to become stronger, whether they want to become a strong person, whether they want to have a lot of capital, whether they want to be admired and looked up to by others, they will continue to work hard and take action.
Secondly, some unpleasant experiences stimulate you to become better, such as being looked down on by a former girlfriend, being scolded harshly by a boss, or being blamed by a rude customer, you no longer want to endure these unfair treatments, so you bite your teeth and swear to fight back, and constantly improve yourself to overcome these challenges.
Finally, they have a very strong desire for success, they want to become a strong person, they want to have a lot of capital, they want to be admired and looked up to by others, they will continue to work hard and take action, to achieve this goal.
Those who can achieve success are inevitably the result of strong desire and continuous effort.
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