Proper upbringing is not about how much you readAuthorBi Shumin Upbringing is a high-frequency word. Currently, if someone is not well-educated, it is severely criticized and discredited. If a woman is not well-educated, it is tantamount to saying she is not properly groomed. What is upbringing? A dictionary says it's 'cultural and moral upbringing', but I'd rather understand it as 'qualities and habits developed through education'. A person can be educated, but still lack upbringing. Just like a person can endlessly eat without his stomach absorbing, like a bamboo basket for water, he remains thin and frail. But this saying seems to be reversible – a person without systematic education can still be well-educated. Upbringing is not innate. If a young child doesn't have someone to teach him good habits and knowledge, he will be ignorant and superficial. Of course, this 'teaching' is broad, including the teacher's teachings, parents' moral influence, and the impact of the environment.
Upbringing and wealth are both things that need to be proven. If you say you have money, you need to provide asset proof. Upbringing's evidence is not your educational background or family background, but rather the ability to demonstrate it.These are just superficial bubbles, and the key evidence may include the following. Love for nature. Listing it as the number one evidence of being well-educated because someone who doesn't respect nature and is unaware of human insignificance is a frog in a well. It may be unavoidable, because without education, a person is difficult to spontaneously understand the vastness of the universe and the insignificance of humanity. Without corresponding scientific knowledge, people other than appearing naive and narrow-minded will inevitably be arrogant. It is the basic training to instill love for plants and flowers from childhood. A well-educated person should be able to use public language freely, express their inner thoughts and communicate with others, and use written language appropriately. The public language I'm referring to is a language that everyone – from ordinary citizens to intellectuals – can understand, not a narrow dialect or a specific situational professional language. This is not a criticism, but a fact. The ability to communicate with people, especially strangers, is often not spontaneous, but needs to be learned and practiced.
A person without education has a limited and impoverished vocabulary. Besides describing physiological sensations, such as hunger, thirst, sleep, and reproduction, they are very vague about their inner feelings. Because the words to describe inner feelings are abstract and rely heavily on embellishment, it's difficult to express them clearly and accurately. Without learning, it's difficult to express them accurately. Although they have skills, they can't use public language, a sacred medium, to communicate and interpret their inner minds. Technology is used for making a living, and simply having the ability to earn a living is not enough. Just like wolves will instinctively hunt for food, it's almost innate. Humans, without doubt, should be far superior. A well-educated person has a proper understanding of history, knowing that as a human being, we have a tortuous road. Of course, upbringing doesn't make everyone like a historian, but it can make a person who likes thinking and learning know where we come from and where we're going.
Upbringing allows us to live not only in the present, but also in the past and future, as if living in a rushing river, knowing the source and the ocean. It's a valuable concept.A well-educated person, especially women, has a friendly understanding and appreciation of their bodies, knowing their names and functions, recognizing their delicacy and cleanliness, and understanding that each part of the body has irreplaceable functions and no difference in nobility or inferiority. He knows his happiness and satisfaction are built on these sensitive and complete sensory and physical integrity. He also knows without doubt that his brain is the master of his body. He doesn't let his organs control his actions; he's a clear and commanding person. He respects his body while respecting others' bodies. While respecting his own rights, he also respects the rights of others. When driving his will, he carefully maintains the grass land of others. A well-educated person knows that fear is meaningful and valuable. It reveals his limitations, knows that there are some limits that cannot be crossed. Knows that there is justice in the world, and justice will punish. Because he fears justice, he will restrain himself, which is a manifestation of strong will. A well-educated person knows to look up at mountains and the universe, and to respect those great discoveries and personalities, and to express respect for what he can't achieve, rather than closing his eyes blindly or mocking it. Upbringing is not achieved in one fell swoop; it's a gradual process; it can be lost and regained. Upbringing also has a certain fixed and consistent trajectory. Upbringing is a sum of habits, to some extent, it's not living on our skin, but proliferating in our bones. Upbringing is largely the product of upbringing and society. Upbringing must have yeast, and under the combined baking of subtle and condition-based influence, it takes enough time to naturally emit fragrance. Upbringing is a measure of a nation's overall quality—like a X-ray that can be covered with makeup and flowers, but only a strong inner quality can withstand erosion and test, which is a symbol of strength.
