What unspoken social rules do people not talk about, and which one resonates with you?
Don't go to impromptu gatherings, no matter how many people invite you.
Long-term illness, no filial piety before bed, long-term poverty, no virtuous wife. So don't get seriously ill, and don't let yourself be poor, otherwise you can't blame others for being ruthless.
Most people are doing things that you don't do, and they criticize you; most people haven't done things that you have done, and they mock you. This doesn't mean you're wrong, it just means your behavior is different from theirs, which makes them angry. They may be angry because they want to make themselves appear correct.
When others show you photos on their phones, control your hands and don't swipe left. When you see a good answer, don't control your hands to like, like, like!!
If you haven't contacted someone for a long time, when they have something to say, don't contact them unnecessarily. Don't ask them 'are you there?'
When you know the answer but still ask questions, it's likely to cause embarrassment, so don't ask questions like 'Have you gotten married yet? Have you had children yet? Have you bought a house yet?'
In this society, it's normal to be angry because of unfairness. You are not a beneficiary.
When someone invites you to dinner, if you're asked to choose the place or order, be cautious. The best way is to let him recommend, otherwise you don't know what his budget is, he wants to invite you to eat dumplings, and you open your mouth to go to Japanese food, don't do this.
When others look down on you, don't care too much, because they often look down on you because you are not enough.
If you are envious of others, it's because you don't read enough. When you were a child, others were studying, you were playing; when you grew up, others were studying, you were still playing. When you enter society, you are still not stopping studying, while you are still playing. That's how you won't get anything. I didn't like to read when I was young, which is why I was behind my peers. Until later, I read a lot of books, and I learned a lot of knowledge and experience from books, which improved my logical thinking ability. After that, my life was like a cheat, and I didn't need to work so hard to achieve success.
It's normal for people not to be fair. When you're angry because of unfairness, you're not a beneficiary.
A large part of people who haven't read much will have an instinctive hatred of people who have read a lot of books. Just like many poor people have an anti-rich psychology. They will try to make you look foolish, and try to prove that reading books is useless, they want to prove that you have become a fool because you read books.
People who read a lot of books can quickly see the essence of the problem. Playing Douyin and Weibo, which seems comfortable, doesn't actually improve your ability. Once you persevere, it will fundamentally change your thinking.
Don't neglect your old friends, because they can create value for you. Don't lose contact, and when you need help, you can find them.
A successful person will have some luck, but luck is not the deciding factor in success. Even if you hate him, if he's more successful than you, he must have something you don't have. You shouldn't dislike him, but you shouldn't deny his achievements.
There are shortcuts, but people who take shortcuts have conditions. For example, you need to have money to go to private schools, and you need good looks to participate in the selection show.
Anyone is not 100% trustworthy. Selfishness, greed, laziness, lust – these bad habits exist in everyone. As long as there is temptation, these bad habits will be exposed.
People who don't read much will have an instinctive hatred of people who read a lot of books.
When you see someone pretending, they are often narrow-minded, self-righteous, willful, and prejudiced. Once exposed, they won't feel embarrassed, but will retaliate against you.
It's better to have a long-term plan. Don't be short-sighted. If you don't have a plan, you will be lost.
When you hear someone talking continuously for more than 10 minutes with voice notes, it's often due to poor pronunciation, which is inconvenient for others.
In crowded places, you must speak carefully, because the person you diss may be liked by others, the leader you complain about may be his second uncle, the girl you like may be his girlfriend.
When dating, if you want to bring your same-sex friend, you should at least say to the person you are dating that you are dating,
Don't accept gifts carelessly. Every gift has a purpose. Especially for girls, don't say that he gave me a diamond ring and a mobile phone as a friend, then accept the gift immediately and break up. Don't make this mistake.
When someone is silent or keeps saying 'um', think about whether your words are boring or embarrassing, or whether you have offended him.
People who read a lot of books can quickly see the essence of the problem.
Don't neglect your old friends, because they can create value for you.
A successful person will have some luck, but luck is not the deciding factor in success.
There are shortcuts, but people who take shortcuts have conditions.
Anyone is not 100% trustworthy.
People who don't read much will have an instinctive hatred of people who read a lot of books.
When you see someone pretending, they are often narrow-minded, self-righteous, willful, and prejudiced. Once exposed, they won't feel embarrassed, but will retaliate against you.
