Sorry, Dad, I’m not capable.
After seeing a clip from the TV series 'A Happy Family,' the son wanted to cut off ties with his family, and his father was furious, saying, 'I've worked so hard to raise you for thirty years, and you still want to cut me off?'
The son retorted, 'I've achieved everything through my own efforts.' The son was a doctor, and there were many more experienced doctors in the hospital than he was, but those people had risen to prominence thanks to their parents, while his father was just a face selling noodles from a stall'
The son roared at his father, complaining that he didn't know how to feed him or provide him with opportunities for advancement!
Hearing his son's complaint, the father was filled with regret and tears, bowing to his son: 'I'm not capable, I've wronged you.'This scene is a microcosm of many families today: children who have grown up with hard work and sacrifices, complain about their parents not being able to provide them with a luxurious life or help them achieve success,”
Most parents are ordinary, working hard day after day to earn money for their children,
When children grow up, they often complain that their parents haven't given them enough,
It's not that parents aren't capable, but that they've poured all their abilities into their children,I once heard a media person say that when he was young, he wanted to buy a house in Hangzhou, took all his savings, and borrowed money from friends. The down payment was still 400,000 short. Just when he was at his wits' end, his single mother, a teacher in a small county, sent him 400,000,
Her mother was only a primary school teacher, earning no more than three thousand per month. He couldn't imagine how she had saved 400,000 over the years,
They said, 'No matter how much money we spend, we'd do anything for you, take whatever we can.'
They would sell their houses and land, even scavenge for scraps, just to treat them,
They'd even exchange their lives for their children's health,
In this world, no one can love their children as much as parents,
Don't complain about your parents' limited abilities, because parents are the only ones willing to sacrifice their lives for you,
Those children who complain about their parents' limited abilities may not know that,
Life is a fleeting journey, not a long-lasting one,
Dragon Lai, after completing her doctorate, returned to Taiwan to teach. When she was reporting, her father drove a cheap delivery truck for feed to take her. That was the only car in the family, and her father made a living transporting feed, raising his children,
That day, her father didn't drive to the main gate of the university, but parked in the alley beside the gate and said to her, 'I feel so sorry for you. This truck isn't a suitable car for a university professor.' Dragon Lai got out of the car and watched her father drive away, saying goodbye in a hurry,She didn't realize that the next time she would watch her father's receding figure at the doorway of a crematorium, her father lying in the coffin, slowly sliding into the furnace,
Dragon Lai said,
'The bond between a father and daughter is like a lifetime—it means that you and he are destined to constantly watch each other's receding backs,'
Like the ancient saying,
'Trees stand still, and the wind doesn't cease, children want to raise their parents, but they are not treated kindly.'Many people spend a lot of time and energy maintaining friendships and romances, but neglect family relationships. In the TV series 'My Dearest Friends,' there was once a line,”
'Most children hate their mothers, and the true reconciliation between parents and children only happens before death.'This is the biggest regret,”
If your child has a misunderstanding of you, remember to tell him,No one can love you as much as I do,If you complain about your parents, then take a look at their gray hair and wrinkles—that's the care they have for you,
Life comes and goes, there's no lasting eternity,Be filial, don't wait until you're old,”
