Take Action Before Choosing, Action After Decision
It's best to avoid counting losses and arguing; humans have two eyes, both parallel, so one should look at people equally; humans have two ears, one on each side, so one shouldn't be biased in listening; although humans only have one heart, there are two heart chambers, so when doing things, one should think for oneself and think for others.
If you want to be happy, be agreeable. If you want to be happy, accept what happens. Happiness is the joy of the heart, and happiness is the satisfaction of the heart. Don't argue with others, don't argue with yourself, don't argue with fate; without counting losses, the heart is always joyful. After dedicating yourself to what you love, accept what comes and goes, and find peace, the heart is always satisfied. When you are agreeable, it's your own heart that's joyful; if others count losses, it's your own misery.
Don't ask yourself if it's possible, just ask yourself if you want to. If you want to, you will; if you ask you will be able to; if you can, you will surely succeed! Always remember what you want, not what you fear. Choice is greater than effort; the wrong direction wastes effort!
The realm of life is only understood through experience, and the more you understand, the more you grow. In fact, the sky is blue, clouds always dissipate; the sea is not wide, the shore is always connected. In fact, tears are sweet; when your heart's desire is fulfilled. Seeing the world with emotions is a tragedy; seeing it with reason is a comedy.
