Even if Life is Difficult, Seek Wisdom in Your Search

There is no miracle start, nor is there a hopeless end to life. In life, you need to grasp that when you should start, you should start without hesitation; when you should end, you should end cleanly. Even the greatest giants have their moments of smallness, and even the smallest people have their moments of greatness. A flower's withering doesn't ruin the entire spring, and a setback doesn't ruin a whole life.

When you do what others ask you to do, you'll become a laborer. When they need you, you appear; when they don't need you, you disappear. You'll gradually lose yourself. The biggest problem in life is not knowing how to refuse. Because there are crying babies who will get milk. The more you refuse, the more you'll get. Life is about enduring hardship and accepting humiliation to enjoy pleasures. Saying 'no' is how you get it; understanding how to refuse is how you live without regrets.

Time changes everything, and everything changes us. What you once couldn't tolerate has become accustomed to; what you once desperately wanted no longer matters; what you once clung to has become relaxed. Loss brings pain, and strengthens you; experience costs, and refines growth. Not crying doesn't mean no tears; 'no care' doesn't mean no hardship. When you know what it's like to cry without tears, to speak without words, to smile without a sound, you've matured!