I'm Tired, Let It Go, Don't Think About Anything Anymore.
Some things, if you overthink them, they cause trouble. If you understand them, you'll find yourself even more troubled. For example, what will happen tomorrow? If you spend the whole day thinking about it, you'll be miserable. If you know what will happen tomorrow, and it turns out to be the opposite of what you hoped for, you'll feel very painful.
Once loved someone, but without a result, you're still thinking about him, and you'll cry from missing him, and feel heartbroken from longing. You must let go of those destined to be without a connection and cut off all contact with him, and don't think about him. Then you'll turn around and meet true love. You need to know that the person who wants to spend their life with you is the true love, and the person who says 'I love you for ten thousand years' might be a liar.
Past things, if you dwell on them, they also cause trouble. For example, if someone has hurt you, you hold a grudge and want to retaliate. If you actually seize an opportunity to harm someone, you might end up being charged with intentional assault and could even face imprisonment. If someone hurts you, you hurt others, but these things are in the past, let them go, clear your mind, don't let your mind be 'full'.
Once participated in a food competition. When the food critics tasted all the dishes and came to a conclusion: 'Radishes and cabbages have different preferences.' When the people around heard this, they burst into laughter and thought the food critic was nonsense. Since it's a competition, there must be a winner. Later, the food critic explained: 'Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and selection is a process of progress, not the final result. Sometimes, the person who comes in last is actually the best person.'
Troubles come from overly focusing on reputation and status, and constantly competing with others. Only by letting go of these distractions, will troubles disappear. If you let go of your grudges and don't argue with others, you'll leave yourself more space for growth, and you'll be able to calm down and become a better person. A person should compete with themselves instead of competing with others, constantly surpassing themselves—that's rational.
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