A single drop of water in the ocean, a grain of sand on the beach, you are not that important, why bother with other people's opinions. The moonlight behind the meteor shower, the mud sand accumulated by fallen leaves, the world is ever-changing, why indulge in yesterday's fairy tales.Life is here, not elsewhere; it is in your heart, not in other people's eyes.Rabindranath Tagore once said: 'If you weep because you've missed the sun, you have also missed the stars.'Don't live in other people's eyesLife's touches don't need to be compared, life's beauty doesn't need to be defined by others.Everyone has their own way of living, everyone has their own brilliance.Life isn't a math problem, there's no standard answer; life isn't a template designed in a monotonous way, the world is interesting precisely because life is different for everyone.'A fish cannot know the joy of its own swimming,' don't care about other people's evaluations, live your own days, they cannot replace you.Life is like a person drinking water, it's cold or warm depending on the person, as long as you're happy, life is just the process of satisfying yourself. Other people's lives may look glamorous, but they may not be suitable for you, as long as you're happy, making yourself happy is the greatest ability of a person.Zhuangzi once faced the vast expanse of the sky and: 'Life is like a fleeting moment between heaven and earth, if it's a flash of a white horse, it's gone in a blink, so live it to the fullest.'Life is short, only a few decades, if you need to violate your own will in these decades, live according to other people's faces, it's painful.A swallow mocked a crane for flying so far to the South China Sea, but the crane didn't put the swallow's opinion in its heart, precisely because of this, the crane gained a better world.If the crane had been swayed by the swallow's words, there would have been no crane soaring to ten thousand miles.Zhuangzi refused the invitation of King Chu, preferring to live like a turtle in the mud, this is precisely because he persisted in his own beliefs and ideas.Don't live in other people's eyes, it's most important to satisfy yourself. Don't live in your own emotions Many people are discouraged after a failure, not because they lack ability, but because they are immersed in past emotions and cannot face the future correctly.Many people encounter a cliff crisis after a successful gain, this is because they are controlled by emotions and complacent, unable to correctly recognize themselves.Someone once said: 'A true hero is a person who can control his emotions. Failure need not be excessively painful, success also need not be excessively joyful.''A story from the Zhuangzi.'A person was sailing across a river when a boat was about to crash into him. In a moment of panic, he shouted angrily, only to discover that the boat was empty.People's emotions are often like this empty boat, if not controlled, if allowed to crash head-on, it will cause danger.On the path of life, don't let your emotions control you, you should be the master of your emotions.When facing failure, have the courage to stand up, when facing success, have the composure to let down.Don't live in your own emotions, learn to empty your emotion recycle bin in time.'It is a matter of distinguishing between internal and external, discerning between honor and disgrace, once it is done.' Life is for yourself to live, not for others to see.Be happy, be happy, other people's standards don't matter.Life is not yesterday or tomorrow, but today, discard yesterday's sadness and honor, and live today well to usher in a better tomorrow.Life, don't live in other people's eyes, don't live in other people's emotions.
Don't live in other people's eyes
Don't live in your own emotions
