Be Good, Let Me Pat Your Head

Give me a pat on the head,Cheng Cheng's half-island box officially departed today! Although the first article written today disappeared suddenly for several hours, I was very frustrated, but then I realized 'fortune favors the bold,' 'evil favors virtue,' so let's begin~

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Why is this article called 'Give me a pat on the head'

Most people should know that 'Give me a pat on the head' is a book, the author is Big Ice (those who don't know him can search online). I first got to know this book, and then got to know this person. I've walked through Big Ice's youth and haste, walked through Big Ice's hardship and perseverance, walked through Big Ice's warmth and gratitude. The stories in the book may be ordinary, but they touch my soul to this day. Establishing this WeChat account is a rash impulse, but the stories I want to tell actually started from that warmth, from that memory, and from the gratitude I felt when reading the book's author's story.

Life is always full of parent-child grievances, life is always about daily necessities and joys and sorrows, and life is always unavoidable. Hahaha, this is life. Hahaha, this is what life is like. Give me a pat on the head, go out and go out and experience life. Life should be smiled at, and every moment of gratitude deserves to be collected. Give me a pat on the head, go run, go experience life, life should be smiled at.

You and I, in this wondrous world, everyone needs to be patted on the head.

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From Big Ice's perspective, I see goodwill and warmth

Big Ice is a backpacker, doesn't care about equipment, on the long road without detailed plans, and without those grandiose life goals. Big Ice's most frequent destination is Tibet. Taking a plane from Jinan to Beijing, then from Beijing to Chengdu, and his hand drum, the wandering musician Big Ice began his Tibetan journey, relying entirely on street performances, and walking along the line.

12 stories, 12 kindnesses, like starlight and candlelight, give hope to everyone, and illuminate the way. Believe that someone is living the life you want. The fickle and changeable, wish you a dream and a place to settle.

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Everyone has a Big Ice in their heart

Since reading Big Ice's book in 2014, I've always had a feeling of restlessness, this feeling made me always seek mountains and lakes, copy others' stories and paste them into my own life. However, dreams are dreams, and reality is that you don't have enough money to realize your dreams. Many people are limited by 'poverty' and cannot achieve their dreams. According to a survey, if I had 500w, the first three things I would do are to buy a house, then travel around the world, and almost occupy the entire Jiangshan. How wonderful the dream is, ask those who don't have dreams, you will know.

I've never liked toxic chicken soup. The biggest poison of toxic chicken soup is to make you realize reality and do things that are realistic. Big Ice says 'Give me a pat on the head' primarily promotes warmth and goodwill. However, I found a 'discovery' power in it. I like to use my own eyes to observe the world, use my own ears to listen to the world, and use my own legs to discover the world.

It doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong, what matters is the feeling. The shackles of reality are too many, think about it, how much time have you left yourself?

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Respect inner feelings, I believe in the power of feelings

No matter what anyone says, I believe my feelings are correct. No matter what others think, I will never disrupt my own rhythm. If you don't like something, you can't persevere for a long time. —————

I've been working for almost six years and have been labeled as 'feeling-type' people. I've struggled for years to become calm, cold, and rational. The more I do this, the more uncomfortable, depressed, and unreal I feel. Some people say that work and life should be separated, and that sensibility and rationality don't conflict. Yes, these don't conflict, but they always keep us in a state of contradiction. When looking for a job, it's not about whether you're interested or not, it's about salary; when looking for a partner, it's not about whether you love or not, it's about whether you're suitable; when buying things, it's not about whether you like it or not, it's about whether it's practical or not. Behind every choice is countless unspoken secrets or maturity, but I still believe that sometimes the most genuine feelings can bring infinite power. I don't agree with being trapped in feelings, but I believe that the power of feelings and the judgment it brings are valuable.

Mature doesn't mean rational, immature doesn't mean sentimental. Today's sharing is a realization and a mindset. Accept or not, follow the flow.

Give me a pat on the head. Tomorrow see.

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