Playing with Jade is a Process of Gradually Changing a Person!

Oct. 2, 2025, 6:04 a.m. Essays

We often hear others say: 'People who play with jade are gentlemen!' However, many people just hear it as a joke and don't really feel anything about it.

Indeed, a novice jade player in front of you may not be judged as a gentleman or not, but once he plays jade for a long time, you will see a huge change in him.

As a friend once said to me: 'He was once fat and had a bad temper, sometimes he would unconsciously use bad words, especially when he had several large gold chains on his hands and body, people would feel that he was a member of a black gang. In fact, he wasn't. But he couldn't say it.'

By a strange chance, he came into contact withjade, and after playing jade, he changed a lot, not just his speech, but also his bad words were reduced. Most importantly, a piece of jade worn around the neck gave him a Confucian and elegant feeling, and most strangers didn't fear him.

He thought: 'Playing jade may not immediately change a person, but if you play it for a long time, you will find that jade is always subtly changing you!'

In fact,Playing jade is a process of gradually changing people and making them more outstanding!

Playing jade, changing speech and behavior

A person's speech and demeanor can most intuitively reveal a person's upbringing and qualities.

Some people look good on the surface, but when they open their mouths, they just use bad words and are very unpleasant; some people look good-looking, but when they raise their hands, they point fingers at others, which is very impolite.

However, after playing jade, being influenced by jade, learning from jade, and understanding the principles of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, and wisdom, a person has undergone a great transformation.

A gentleman is like jade, and his hands are warm.jade is smooth and lustrous, with a heavy and restrained feeling. People who play jade also have a jade-like broad-mindedness and internal elegance, they speak with moderation, their behavior is polite, their manner is courteous, gentle and warm.

In interpersonal communication, we can see his soul from a simple sentence or a gesture.

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And playing jade is the most direct change in a person's speech and behavior, after all, even the most irritable person, if he is a friend of jade and influenced by jade, he will gradually become knowledgeable and elegant.

Playing jade, tempering one's character

Playing jade is not just a material game, it will also unconsciously temper one's character.

Character refers to a person's personality and temperament.

Many people are full of meetings and entertainment before playing jade, which makes them feel bored and irritable. After playing jade, one's character will gradually become calm and steady.

During the playing of jade, every day, we travel to jade markets, looking at jade stones, and the inner feeling is fullness and joy.

Even if the same journey is exhausting, because of loving jade, everything will be willingly done, even if it is difficult and tiring, it is willingly done, and one's character becomes very open-minded.

Time gives us experience, but during the playing of jade, it also tempered our character, making us more optimistic and open-minded.

Playing jade, cultivating patience

"Patience is a noble quality, and tenacity is a great quality. Whoever loses patience loses his soul."

Playing jade mainly cultivates a person's patience.

A jade collector once said to me: 'I spent five years to collect a piece of seed jade bracelet. I didn't want to show off that I was patient, but I wanted to tell you how lucky I am.'

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For many jade collectors, it takes a long time to collect a good seed jade bracelet, which requires not only effort but also patience, and it's necessary to run the marathon successfully.

Playing jade, appreciating culture

Speaking of Confucius, many people only know that he is famous, but if you ask them to recite some of Confucius's famous sayings, can they do it? Of course, some people can recite some of Confucius's famous sayings, but can some other sayings be spoken out?

I suspect that only literature students can say one or two of these things.

Playing jade, changing one's temperament

Now it's a society where appearances are important, many people feel that temperament is like a mirage, intangible and useless.

But temperament is not useless, because with temperament, it can make many people ignore your appearance!

Temperament is not necessarily only obtained from playing jade, but playing jade can subtly cultivate spirit, refine temperament, and make you full of temperament.

Many jade collectors' surroundings have a female jade player, she is not beautiful, but her temperament is impeccable, like a fragrant orchid in a secluded valley.

Playing jade is a shortcut to obtaining temperament, it will not let you be affected by outer beauty, and you will be self-assured and confident.

When you grow old, you will find that your soul will not become dull because of your appearance, because jade will subtly lead you to a better direction.