Written by Fan Fan Ma

As the saying goes, 'A drop of water's kindness deserves a heartfelt repayment.' This means that when one is at their most difficult, if they receive help from others, even a small kindness, one should remember it and repay it in kind.

In this world, no one is inherently good, and even parents are no exception.

However, in reality, there are always some people who, after receiving help from others, fail to show gratitude, even treating it as something they deserve.

The child who was subsidized by Sun Li, actually tried to ruin her future!

Although this is a matter of celebrity gossip, it gives many people a warning!

Everyone is familiar with the powerful actress Sun Li, and her roles are also widely praised, but even beneath her glamorous exterior, there are some things she would rather not revisit.

In 2002, Sun Li had just finished filming 'Jade Goddess', and she was not yet a big star. She happened to see a program called 'Hope in the Mountains,' where a poor student, Hai Qing, was facing the risk of dropping out of school. Sun Li felt compassion for him and decided to sponsor him.

After that, Sun Li regularly provided financial support to the boy, silently helping him complete his studies. During the first college entrance examination, Hai Qing was disappointed and discouraged, ready to give up.

Sun Li encouraged him in a letter, and thanks to her encouragement, Hai Qing's second year of studying was successful. At that time, Sun Li was happier than anyone because she truly regarded him as a family member.

After that, Sun Li bought him a phone and paid for his tuition and living expenses.

Originally, this child should have become better, but unfortunately, things did not go as planned. After entering college, Hai Qing gradually 'changed his ways.'

Because of the year Hai Qing's mother was sick, Hai Qing knew that the person who had been supporting him was the famous actress Sun Li and her mother. His greed began, and he started to spend money lavishly, indulging in parties, dating, and playing games...

Later, Hai Qing repeatedly asked Sun Li for money, and in just two weeks, he asked for 1,000 yuan. Considering that in 2005, 1,000 yuan was a significant sum, especially for a student.

Not only that, he also concealed from Sun Li that he had received 6,000 yuan in scholarships from the school.

In Hai Qing's eyes, Sun Li was no longer a benefactor, but a money-making machine. He could get money from Sun Li without doing anything.

When Sun Li discovered Hai Qing's change, she was disappointed and stopped supporting him. Sun Li also felt that he had grown up and was capable of supporting himself, so she stopped supporting him.

But Hai Qing was furious and wrote a 6,000-word article accusing Sun Li of 'crimes,' bringing her into the public eye and damaging her image.

Sun Li never responded because she had already given up, believing that she had done her best, but the other person treated her kindness and efforts as something they deserved.

It's a pity that a good-hearted sponsorship turned into a 'white-eyed wolf'!

So, what happened to Hai Qing now?

Later, a witness exposed the truth and cleared Sun Li's name. Afterwards, Hai Qing was forced to suspend his studies for a year. After graduation, many units were unwilling to hire him because of his character.

He also encountered many difficulties in his job search and finally chose a simple job and lived a hidden life.

As British writer Sackley said, 'If a person, after receiving great kindness, turns against their benefactor, he must, to preserve his dignity, be more venomous than any indifferent stranger. He must prove the other person's guilt to justify his own heartlessness.'

From Sun Li's experience, parents should also understand that when educating children, they must teach children to be grateful, even if it's just a small thing, like picking up something, they should express gratitude, because gratitude starts from small things.

Because gratitude starts from small things, it will make children understand that help from others is not deserved, and it is not something they should take for granted.

2) Let children participate in labor

Many parents believe that their children are 'lazy,' and they don't do housework or study, so they complain that their children are too lazy.

This is mainly because children don't understand the difficulties their parents have experienced, nor do they understand why their parents always say their children are lazy, and they don't realize the impact of their actions on their parents.

If you let children participate in labor, children will understand the hardships their parents have experienced, and at the same time, they will learn to be grateful to their parents.

3) Teach children to share

Sharing is a happy thing, why don't parents teach children to share?

For young children, they don't understand how to share, so parents can give children an example in daily life.

When taking children out to play, parents can share some snacks with children, and over time, children will understand that sharing is a happy thing, and they will be happy to share with others.

After children enter kindergarten, they enter a 'small society.' If children learn to share, they will also integrate into the kindergarten group. This is what all parents want to see.

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