In middle age, it's better to be lonely than to be involved with those you can't afford.
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Middle age is a very awkward age. Saying you're young, youth is no longer within you; saying you're old, you have both elderly and young people under you, and it's the age of struggle. Like a hardworking old ox, except for arduous struggle, there seems to be no joy.
Often the more such people, the more numb their hearts, always want to seek some fresh things, facing the long-term partner with whom they have been, also had some annoyance. But whether it's married or unmarried, regardless of loneliness, don't 'love' some people too much.
Some people are untouchable in middle age. There is a kind of like jellyfish, once touched, it is destined to be poisoned to death; and there is a kind of like a chronic poison, unconsciously making you lose consciousness. These people are very scary, friends in middle age must stay away from.
So, when you reach middle age, it's better to be lonely than to be involved with those you can't afford.
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Proactive approach by other men with ulterior motives
'Hello, handsome.' In the dim bar, Chen Li stood in a corner, lonely drinking and watching the dim and mysterious environment, came to find some stimulation, fill his inner loneliness, unexpectedly met a figure as beautiful as a peach, and was approached by a beautiful young girl
Chen Li's first reaction was to dodge. The girl seemed to see his resistance, proactively approached, later switched to a quiet place to chat, then the two exchanged contact information. The girl was very young, had no job, but had a lot of expenses, Chen Li although not wealthy, but had some savings, after all, he had reached middle age
In this way, the girl would occasionally find him. Such things seem to always be unable to withstand the test of time, not long after being exposed. Chen Li ended up with a broken family and reputation, and nothing left, it's really difficult to start over. All this started with his lonely heart, nowhere to put it.
People are inherently lonely individuals, everyone will have feelings of loneliness and loneliness, but when you reach middle age, don't because of your momentary feelings, go to contact those you can't afford young girls.
They have capital to spend, they can make mistakes and have the opportunity to start over, while you make a mistake, you will have nothing.
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Years later, old lovers
Li Jing and her husband, when they were young, started a business together and struggled together, after experiencing difficulties, their small life was getting better. Besides running their small shop, they were also helping their children. Li Jing felt that this kind of life was not bad
When their children were in junior high school, they needed to hire tutors, and the tutor hired by their children was Li Jing's former wife, Li Jing learned that they were not doing well, so she actively introduced some students to them.
Li Jing's actions were noticed by her former wife, and they had a meal together to express their gratitude. At first, they didn't think much of it, but later her former wife contacted her more and more frequently, and the old feelings quickly rekindled.
At this age, men and women alike, the time spent in stable families is too long, the lonely and lonely hearts always want to find some stimulation. In this way, Li Jing was moved again by her former husband, and sometimes the feeling of rekindling old love was even more intense than a passionate romance.
They betrayed two families and let their emotions run wild without responsibility. This result is like setting oneself on fire, family, life, children, parents, everything can't forgive their mistakes.
When you reach middle age, no matter men or women, don't easily show your lonely heart to those you can't handle, even if you feel lost in life, you can spend money to travel and relax, or try things you've never done before. But don't accept the kindness of others.
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After middle age, it's best not to 'fall in love' with such people, the ending you can't bear.
Ailing once said: 'Men in middle age often feel lonely because they open their eyes and see people relying on them, but no one relies on them.'
In fact, no matter men or women, when you reach a certain age, you will feel lonely. Men feel pressured, and women feel the same.
Middle age life is sometimes like a stagnant pool, people living in it feel lonely and isolated, and are tempted by the flowers and grass outside, they don't know that stepping out of a step will make them irreversible.
Once you have chosen a path, you shouldn't be reckless. If you don't want to be so tired, why bother? If you don't have the energy and ability to bear the consequences, don't provoke those you can't handle.
If you can persevere and remain true to your original intentions, the ending will be smooth; if you can't bear loneliness and loneliness, you will eventually end in tragedy.
Every play has an ending, just like every person has an end. Whether you can fulfill your destiny depends on yourself.
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Author: Snow Falling Without Dust, a writer and emotional consultant. If you have any emotional troubles, you can send me a private message~
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